So is this what you get for confronting an sicko?

Question

I confronted my dad and brother yesterday about everything they've done to me My dad ignored me. I left and my brother followed me. we got into a fight and i ended up in the hospital. why even bother with familiy anymore?

i dont live with them, they called supposlly wanting to get back in my life. my brother might end up in jail, it all depends. i hate them though, is that wrong?

Answer 1

If they don't know where you live put his A*S in jail. Never go back to them. Don't talk to them ever again. You need to talk to someone. You can't be taking on your family alone. You need a support group that's behind you all the way. They don't have to be family of course but people you trust. Talk to someone and get it all out, then if necessary let the law step in and do what they can to keep them away from you. You are the victim don't let them off with this cr@p. Mental abuse is one thing, physical is something that can be proven in a court of law. Don't go there ever again. They are poison for you girlfriend. Maybe that's why you are the way you are. From a previous question from you.

Answer 2

Wow! That's very sad. I don't know what u were fighting about but it sounds like u are very hurt buy it. Do u live in the same house together? Also how old are u ? are u olds enough to move out. If not try to keep urself busy with after school programs.Or u can get a after school job. I left my family when i was 16 never went back home ( for similar reasons) i do stay in contact w/ them. But when the bull starts i just walk away dont contact anybody for a few months or until everything blows over. I dont take anybodies crap i pay my own rent & if i cant pay my rent (which has happen before& i was in the steet) i still didnt go back home.Just be strong try to ignore the garbage that is going on around u.we all go threw family problems.U just have to be the bigger person and dont fight over bull.good luck to u.

Answer 3

No it isn't wrong sweetie.

I too had to leave my family behind many, many years ago and move on. My parents are physicly abusive for no reason at all.

My father, sexually.

Unfortunately we can't pick our family members but we can pick out our friends.

It took me several tries before I could really emotionally come to grips with the fact, that I was on my own and would have to navigate through life without any emotional support from my family.

I am so glad I moved on. I am really trulely happy now and no longer have to go through crying spells.

Some people are just not healthy to be around.
You will find lot's of people out here that will treat you with respect, love and protect you. Not hurt you.

You ended up in the hospital. That's not good.
You will soon learn that they are not worth the pain and suffering.

So many people say that family is everything. That is not true for all of us. I left them as only a bad memory years ago and I'm SOOOOO glad I did. I am soooo much happier now.

I'm sorry you have been dealt such a hard lot in life. I know what you're going through.
Keep your chin up, hold on to your dignity and move on to greener pastures.

You can't change THEM but you can change your life.

Good Luck sweetheart. If you're anything like me, you will get to the point where you won't even look back and walk away with a big sigh and a smile on your face instead of a sad face.

Answer 4

Mentally i have been abused by my father for my whole life until i turned 24 and i just turned 26 this year but i regret it though because i dropped the respect i had for him. My familly dont understand and me and my brother fought over the situation but 24 years of mental abuse built up i took out on the wrong person. Sometimes peo[ple know when they have done wrong but they dont talk about it because they are so ashamed of themselves i guess my father know knowes but it took 24 years! You remember these words my grandpa told me when i was little your family is your blood and its all you got once its gone its gone try to preserve it for bad and good! I took my own advice me my brother and father are all here drinking cold ones right now together maybe this makes since and can be of some help but please dont turn your back on your family!

Answer 5

Sorry to here that ! Families can be your worst enemies,s sometime,s. I never did have much of a family when I was growing up and I believe that make,s me a better farther I do anything I can for my boy,s and try to be open to their problem,s and help any way I can or at least I try my best! O and by the way If your Dad! don,t do something about what your brother did talk to the local law enforcement and see if they can help you!

Answer 6

You should call the police, if you're a victim of abuse by anyone, you should tell the authorities. If you're getting beaten enough to wind up in the hospital at this point, you should act now before something much worse happens.

Contact the people at the following website for some assistance.

Answer 7

Your an angel fighting your way through this hell we call earth. If you can get away from this, do it, please. Your soul will rot if you let these scabs eat at you. Even what seems like the most drastic of decisions, if it seems like the right one, it probably is. It can always be changed, as life does go on. Your the editor of your life, and maybe you just got stuck with the roughest of rough drafts. We're all working on a happy ending. You're only as strong as your weakest link, so help everyone you decide you wanna around you be stronger.

Answer 8

People who love you don't do what you have described - redefine whom you include in your family, and choose the people that love you.

If you are still living at home - get out! Get some help - counseling is available to EVERYONE and take yourself to a safe place.

Contact the police and file charges against your brother, both for the assault and for whatever he may have done to you previously.

Good luck.

Answer 9

Apparently you're not in the right family. Sorry, sweetie. Some people just don't like to hear about what they've done to another family member because they constantly justify it to themselves. Sad. I'm really sorry.

Answer 10

Counseling is expensive but I believe your family needs it. If this can't be done then I would leave them alone for awhile and know that you did the best you could have done. Just pray for them.