Sex and Toy shop (a whip and a leather paddle). Well, I intend to use these with my friend but don't really know how she will react when I show her. We have not been physically involved yet but she is always spanking me on my a** even in public and this is a very big turn on for me and she knows this. I can't wait till she uses what I purchased. I'm a female. What should I do and how should I approach her w/ these items!
2006-12-08 10:27:35 · 3 answers · asked by Noclue 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My partner and I have a wonderful relationship because we explore each others fetish. The best way to approach her with these oblects is to ask her in private if she would like to "spank you lke the bad girl you are." If she isn't shy she will most likely want to. Bring out the paddle. Hold off the whip until you are proof positive she is into that part of you.
2006-12-08 11:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by vamp_of_jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have already sort of discussed this with her. Since she knows you are turned on by spanking, so no reason to beat around the bush with it. Just show her what you got and suggest spending some time using your new toys.
2006-12-08 18:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her horny. For real. Be serious too. Just state that you'd like that. Or pretend you've not even bought them yet and tell her how you'd like if you guys used some toys and then if she says yes you can later bring out the items as if you had gotten them after you talked to make it less weird. And ask yourself, "Does she like kinky?"
2006-12-08 18:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Zachary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋