if a mans wife/gf is slender why do they say that ill leave if you become fat,?

Question

do men with larger wives/gf ever say ill leave you if you become thin.

thanks westfield, im not with a shallow man and i never would be im single.

Answer 1

hmmm.. i've heard that because the men are actually afraid that their wife/gf will leave them for another man if they become thinner.

Answer 2

Probably not. Slender (not skinny) is healthy. Personally, I prefer a woman who can keep up. If my wife went from 125 lb to 250 lb, that would constitute a problem. I would definitely let her know that when I married her I was SURE that there was not a sofa stuck to her ***.

I think you'd have a hard time finding a guy who would be upset if his wife went from 250 lb down to 125 lb. Me, I would buy her an entire new wardrobe to tell her "good job".

Answer 3

Haha! No, I doubt that men say that to large women. But seriously, it's silly for a man to say something stupid like that. It goes without saying--"if you stop being attractive to me, I'll leave." It shouldn't matter why. By saying something like that, all he does is make her worried about it, and probably feel vulnerable or weak. Maybe it's some macho bullshit so he can feel like a big man, or maybe he's an idiot. Either way, it goes to show that he doesn't care about her personality, he's just looking for any old miniskirt that he can show off to his guy friends.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Not all men would say that...only the shallow ones. You my dear are with a shallow man.... I am available...if you need a change.

Answer 6

Honesty.

Answer 7

its the person inside that counts and not whats on the outside I am sur that most men would want to stay with their wifes if they became thinner

Answer 8

men with larger wives might say that, who knows?

Answer 9

plain and simple - that is psychological manipulation - a threat to keep you insecure in general - not healthy - and obviously not loving

Answer 10

because they want the women to know that they dont want them to change or... they just like big people/ average