Should i skip school because my boyfriend wants me to? He want us to spend the day together but i think it's a bad idea. I don't know what to do help!?
2006-12-08 10:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is a test for u (and for him): if u agree and skip school EVEN THO u don't think it's a good idea, then that means that
he has more control over ur decisions than he should have
he influences u negatively
he doesn't make good decisions (he shouldn't persuade u to do things that feel wrong or will not be Healthy for you)
he likes to mix work and pleasure (which is not really good when u have a job, or school to concentrate on for the future)
u are easily persuaded to do things u don't want to do
but if u stand firm and say no u don't want to, then
you have control over what you want and need
you are letting him know that u won't always do what he says
you have good idea of what you Should and Shouldn't be doing
you don't try to mix business w/ pleasure (school is school.. play is play)
you are following a path and u stick to it
.... u know what i mean.. pretty much if he respects that u don't want to, then he is ok. but if he gets angry or tries to force u, it becomes more about ur Relationship than skiping school or not. personally i didnt' care about skipping a few classes, but the whole day i wouldn't feel comfortable either. and if u are not comfortable, u should be able to work it out together. he should want the Best for you, not take u away from ur path. good luck
2006-12-08 10:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your thought. It is not a good idea.
2006-12-08 18:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont the chances of staying with him forever are slim
but your education will stay with u forever
2006-12-08 18:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by LuCKyNUmBeRShaDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the third answer...
2006-12-08 19:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND.
2006-12-08 19:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by GIGI aND PUNKIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, what could it hurt?...............Have FUN!!!!!
2006-12-08 18:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tena Bena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋