2 of my friends always let me down. we'll make plans and then they'll break them because they're mom won't assist with taking us anywhere or picking us up. And they were going to go on a cruise with me but now they can't. It seems like every time i turn right or left they always let me down and make me cry. What should i do?
2006-12-08 10:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your friends cannot go where they want without parental consent, then they are not entirely responsible for "letting you down." They should definitely ask their parents before promising to accompany you somewhere, instead of telling you that they'll go without knowing whether their parents will let them. It sounds like they want to hang out with you, but they have other things holding them back.
You can either talk to them about the situation and let them know that it hurts you whenever they break your guys' plans or end the friendships. It's entirely up to you, but you may want to talk to them about it before you make such a drastic change (by ending the friendships). Another option is to get used to not depending on them, but, in my opinion, that isn't the basis of a great friendship.
2006-12-08 10:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by AlwayzRottiez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is, Why do you nonetheless stay acquaintances together with her if she has consistently show you how to down? It seems such as you're a sucker for punishment. often times the best is going out of a friendship that has run that is course. not each chum is an entire life chum, many acquaintances one makes in existence, are like guideposts on the journey of existence,and while they have served their purpose, you progression on and bear in mind what you have found out,and shop the concepts of the best. yet on your case forgetting , could properly be greater helpful,and her consistent disrespect for you, is fates way of nudging you to make a metamorphosis on your existence.
2016-10-18 00:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they either don't want to go with you or they can't cuz of they families. get some more friends but keep them..
don't ever cry again over spoilt milk..OMG a cruise,i kno how u feel,jus go with some of your other GOOD friends if they aren't really going..
2006-12-08 10:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by gabi c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know a women that i like very much, she seems to have a psychological need to disappoint me. i told her as much, and be gain to laugh out loud at what i said. she made up for it some what, but that is her personality, i either accept with conditions, or let go. hurt feelings for a women i am told, is like having your skin burned off. damn.sorry.
2006-12-08 10:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the problem there mom are them.if its them tell them you don't like how they keep letting you down and they need to treat you like a real friend are you well go find a real friend to hang with.
2006-12-08 10:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by derrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave then and search for new friends because she dont deserve u need a friend make u smile not cry
2006-12-08 10:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding new friends?
2006-12-08 10:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Cici 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find some more reliable mates
2006-12-08 10:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋