do you think my wife is cheating on me?

Question

yesterday when my wife came home from work she was really in a bad mood i tried to cheer her up by saying nice things, but she didn't tell me what was wrong so i started kissing her neck and she pushed me off of her saying that all i was, was nothing but a dog and i only wanted sex from her. she stormed out the house and i asked her where she was going and she said no where. she didn't come back till 3 hours later when she came back there was a change in her mood because she was cheerfull and i asked her what cheered her up and she said noONE! anyways figuring she was in a good mood last night i tried to 'get it on' by rubbing her back and working my hands down on her because i wanted to try some new postitions with her that i knew she liked. but she fired off at me yelling at me which hurt me. and it isn't just sex she snaps at everything i do she use to love the things i do. i even tried new stuff just in case she was bored that didn't work. what should i do i don't want to lose her

Answer 1

sweetie quit thinking with the head in your pants! TALK to her. ask her what is bothering her. I dont think she is cheating on you I think her plate is full maybe? Maybe is it something at work, possibly a family problem. Maybe its because she is not in the mood and worried about something and it peeves her off that your are trying to get her on her back! Take your blinders off and talk you your partner!

Answer 2

Maybe she is just stressed out. Things at work might not being going very good. Its sounds like she is having a hard time unwinding. That is why she left for a few hours and when she got home she was in a better mood. Try a new technique. When she gets home, have her a bubble bath running, some candles burning, and her favorite beverage. Give her a hour to herself and see if she doesn't come back in a better mood. Rub, or wash her back in the tub if she wants you too. If not just leave her alone. After relaxing she might be more apt to open up to you and talk to you about what is going on. We all at one point hit that stress mark where we could "take out everyone in our sights". :) Exercise patience's, love, and respect her privacy, until you have proof she is having an affair. When our moods change and our mates don't understand what the problem is, don't run for the excuse of her or him cheating on you. That is a terrible thing to put yourself threw mentally and physically. Not to mention, alot of affairs get started because of one accusing the other all the time. Just be supportive. That will save a lot of wear and tear on the both of you. :)

Answer 3

OMG ! I'm so sorry to hear about your situation...........but to be 100% honest with you,yes that does sound like she is cheating on you! Being a female myself....i`ve NEVER cheated on my husband,but he`s cheating on me;so i know the difference!You don't just go one second all p.off and leave the house and then stay gone for 3 hours and then come back all cheerful(but NO ONE cheered you up)she went out and got her some and then came back home to you....specially the way she acted at first then pushed you off like you was no one or nothing.I hope this will help you out.May God bless you and you take care.

Answer 4

The behavior does sound rather strange. A few things that may help...

Ask if you have done anything to her that has made her upset. Ask her why she feels why you only want to bone her. Ask her what you could do to make her feel happy and have a better opinion of you. If you don't get acceptable answers OR you implement everything she wanted and she still acts and treats you the same way...

Watch her dude! Start keeping track of her cell phone calls. Watch how she acts. Keep note of when she gets mad for no reason. Correlate the strange behavior with phone calls to unknown numbers before or after the tantrums. Take note of the frequency of calls to numbers you don't recognize. Invest in one of those reverse phone look up services. Try and use something like zabba search to determine who the phone numbers are associated with. If you know someone at the phone company, get them to trace the phone calls to the originator.

If you can get these tools in place, if she is pulling a fast one, you WILL catch her!

Answer 5

Sounds like she is under alot of stress. I would try to calmly talk to her, dont accuse her of anything. Let her know your concerned about her and your relationship and want to make things better. Ask her if there is anything you can do to help the situation. Listen to her.

She maybe feeling pressured to have sex. Try doing things just to show her you care;cooking dinner, giving her flowers, a nice massage and not pressure her for anything in return. Romance her. Maybe then she will not be so stressed out. good luck.

Answer 6

Before u jump to any conclusions, i think you should talk to her. Tell her whats been going on in your head, that u think she might be cheating.

Have u done anything in the past that may have hurt her? and maybe now she is paying u back for how u might had treated her before.

Besides all, we cant tell u if shes cheating or not,communication is the key. Point blank just ask her and see how she reacts and how she answers u.

Answer 7

Just because a wife (Or Husband) gets in a lousy mood now and then, doesn't mean they're cheating. EVERYBODY get to be a butt head now and then. Marriage doesn't make us perfect, but it's supposed to mean that we always have a person we can trust. Unless and until you have good cause to doubt your wife, trust her. Yeah, yeah, she MAY be untrustworthy, but until she gives just cause, YOU should trust her. But, trust doesn't mean blind or stupid.

Answer 8

"i asked her what cheered her up and she said noONE! "

i think it is very suspect that you asked what and she said noOne.
that is a very specific question to answer "WHO cheered you up" and you didn't ask it.
but then she could have something else stressing her out. sit her down and say i want you to be honest with me. if you say you won't blow up if it's something she think you'lll be mad at and if you say you will talk rationally, sheis more likely to tell you the truth. observe whether weird stuff like this happens alot. if it happens again that's when you should confront her. but if she's in a rage wait till she calms down. good luck. and if sheis cheating on you and you are not at fault in any way, well she doesn't deserve you

Answer 9

yeah she is cheating. sorry i kept her away from you for three hours but she is an animal in the bed, and on the table, the couch, the counter, the kitchen chair, inside the fridge, on the car hood, the sidewalk and the front yard. do me a favor there pal and let her get some sleep.

Answer 10

This is a tough one. The fact the you asked what cheered her up & she said no one, maybe you should sit her down and ask what's going on with her. Could just be stress.