how do I sweep my crush off her feet? I really like her and I know she likes me...?

Question

I sent her flowers and a big bear to her work. I asked her for a date and she accepted. We talk a lot on the phone and through messenger. But I still feel she needs me to prove her something. i don't know. She flirts with me and I flirt back But I have a limit because I don't want to scare her away. It's driving me nuts. I think about her all day everyday. I told her how I feel about her. She was shocked. What would my next move be? Help me!!

Answer 1

Ooops. How shocked?

Next move is buy or rent a yacht, take her out to the marina during a full moon, help her aboard the boat. Serve her wine and grapes on the fantail under the moonlight. Take her out for a little spin and anchor somewhere offshore under the stars in a sparkling sea of glass. Put on some dreamy music.

That ought to do it.

Answer 2

Well, your neck is on the block already. If you came clean about how you feel you just told her that you made a three of a kind with the flop. Either she will stick around and play the hand or she'll fold. Supposing she sticks around, you need to learn how to relax. If she is winding you up that much you might never show her your best side. As I recommend to everyone, establish good communication right off the bat. Learn what she likes and indulge her. Does she like movies, plays, operas, hiking, sports, making dinner, eating out, whatever it is, find out. Being able to spend time doing an activity she enjoys that you planned communicates attentiveness and caring, which most women seem to like. Actually taking charge, planning it, seeing it through and projecting assertiveness and confidence is also something that most women like. At this point she knows whether or not she likes you and, clearly, she knows you like her. So, really, she either swept already or not.

Answer 3

Look man r u a putz. Be yourself in every way possible dont do things that you have to think out so much. You r trying too hard....too much can have a negative effect......I should of wrote a book a long time ago for guys like you....I bet you r a cooldude but you turn into a schoolboy around the girls. I'm noty trying to b harsh but love happens it isnt in the form of flowers n teddy bears. RELAX , TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND TAKE ONE STEP BACK.....email me and I will help you....trust me

Answer 4

Have you ever heard the saying, treat people the way you like to be treated yourself ?. Sex is the strongest emotion in life, and thats probably, whats driving ya nuts at the minute,! however next to that EVERYBODY likes to feel IMPORTANT, and I mean everybody. surely you have felt chuffed/ IMPORTANT, when people gather to help, blow out your birthday candles. In your world you are the most important person, in HER world so is she, so you see, the jobs done, you only have to make her feel IMPORTANT I have never yet met a person who AVOIDS those who make them feel IMPORTANT. the only problem will be is when she excepts your attitude toward her, she will expect the same from you for the rest of her life! This means that success doesn't come the way you think it does, it comes from the way you THINK !!!

Answer 5

Well, if she's crazy about you too, then your work is done. Try relaxing and being yourself -- well, unless your a jerk, then try being someone else. ;) Seriously, though, trying too hard can be a death sentence. Show her how much you like her with your actions, not with material things. Listen to what she has to say about various topics, make her an equal for making decisions (where to eat, what movie to see, what to do for a day together, etc.) Good luck! :)

Answer 6

do something that has a particularly special meaning to her..for example if she keeps saying she wants to hit this certain spa or something..get her a package..or she really wants to go somewhere go there..or if she has been stressed at work do something..u get the idea...and maybe attach a card with it that explains in no uncertain terms that you like her and what you want to happen between the two of you

Answer 7

Next move: Get some confidence!! You talk she accepted your date offer what else is there! Keep acting like a loser and she will be gone

Answer 8

Well if you chase her too much, she will be turned off. You sound very sweet and she is lucky, so just back it off a little, she will miss the attention

Answer 9

talk with her again, if it works out smoothly bring her flowers the next time.

Answer 10

If you already tryed everyting like that give it time!!! She might need time to think!!!1 ALL Girls are like that!!! If you dont give her time then you will scare her away trust me just GIVE IT TIME!!