my ex and I broke up months ago. even though we broke up we were still benefit I never left her side. Then she wentout and met other guys she told me she doesnt want do anything with me nomore and I should leave her alone. It was hard for me to do it but I did for her. couple weeks later she calls me and said she miss me...she miss the old day and everytime she hang with her friend she think about me. I ask her if I asked her back out again she said she cant because she has a boyfriend. It hurted me so much she told me if I have feeling for her hide it because she doenst want anything do with it. I thought she would do the same but she didnt when she told me those it just brought me back from where we seperated and it just kills me because I regret losing her first time and now I really want her back. more we doing this the more she hates me now she wouldnt even look or talk to me. i waited for outside and said hi but she didnt look at me and just walk pass me. i really love this girl
2006-12-08 09:55:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1 tried my best the first time but it didnt work and now Im trying a second time. she doesnt even care about me yah I know people are going to tell me if she doesnt love you move on or go out and have fun its easy said but hard to do. The worst time is at night I cant shut my eyes because i think of he. She was a good girl but then she met some other friend and she drinks and stuff. people tell me she a prositute but **** it I believe her and she ant. I would do anything for her. her friend doesnt want me be with her and my friend doesnt want me be with her it just really suck alot. i tried go out and have fun with other girls but it doesnt feel right because when i hang my ex i feel warm and like shy but with other girl it just like boring and i think of my ex. sorry for the mis-spell
2006-12-08 09:56:10 · update #1
Time really does heal alll wounds. But if everytime she gets lonely or sentimental you take her back even for a night, it only prolongs the pain. It is your choice how long you let her bungy jump your emotions. If she is starting a new life with someone new it should be obvious enough so you can decide to stay away and lick your wounds or let her take you for another ride which doesn't let either of you keep your feet on the ground. If she is weak then you must be strong for both your sakes.
2006-12-08 10:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tuff one. I think that she prolly still has feelings for you but if she doesn't want anything to do with you right now maybe you should just have fun with your life and if she does ever realize what a great guy she lost she'll be back. Don't push her tho because you'll end up pushing her out for good. Give her space and have fun with the freetime. And if she never realizes what she lost she ain't worth it anyway. You sound pretty cool and if she can't see that she's not worth it.
2006-12-08 18:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like true love to me. And it also sound like you're too late. But perhaps not. Perhaps she is just playing with you. You have to tell her that you love her. Just start by trying to say hi to her. And of course, talk to her alone. If she won't listen make her listen. Pull her out of the croud is nessacary. If you really live this girl, and you did say you would do anything for her. But does that mean you'll do anything to get her back. Although I'm pretty sure it does. I think that your girl has a serious case of denile. Just listen to your heart and hope that her's is listening as well.
2006-12-08 18:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't feel the same way about you. You really need to move on. You're putting this girl on a pedestal. She's already got a boyfriend that should be enough for you to start to move on. Keep yourself busy and try not to talk to her or do anything that will remind you of her. Move on with your life because she already has.
2006-12-08 18:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are going to have to pull yourself together! Quit whinning and doing this pity party bit. If she is involved with others why would you want her anyway. Suck it up and move on. Come on be a man here!
2006-12-08 18:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with I'm going to tell you what you already Know, dump her, she sounds like she's having fun with you, you know "the fool" that's what it sounds like she thinks about you, the "fool" what's wrong with you my friend.
Toss her to the curb and hit the scene again, find someone new.
2006-12-08 18:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋