Im kinda interested in having one, but im scared that it will cause a huge dramatic scene in my long term relatnshp. I love my girlfriend I would just be really turned on watchng her do sumone else & being watched. A few friends say go for it & that if we r really as in love it wont hurt us. But other friends say dont do it because it will permanently damage my relatnshp. Which is right??
2006-12-08 09:50:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I want an all female 3way. No men. Neither of us do men at all.
2006-12-08 10:04:04 · update #1
DONT DO IT! Either u or her will regret it. Are u jealous AT ALL by nature? Even if it doesnt seem like it, watchng the woman u love all over anothr woman....it will end up making your skin crawl. Or at least it should if u r really in love.
2006-12-08 10:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Probably not the best idea. The strongest of relationships can be ruined, by such an event. If you really love your girlfriend, you might actually find it difficult to watch, once you are involved with the other person. And its very difficult to not feel jealous when you see them together. It can inadvertantly create trust issues, anger and feelings of inadequacy, on both sides. Your playing with fire. Decide wether your relationship is worth more than the experience you are going to get from the situation. I personally will never ever go there again.
2006-12-08 10:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either of you have ever said the other one is jealous for any reason, don't do it. One will end up accusing the other of liking the 3rd too much, paying too much attention to the 3rd, or being more excited with the 3rd... IF you decide to do it, make sure that your relationship is really strong and that this won't change that, and make sure the 3rd isn't someone you know very well and will have to interact with much afterwards.
2006-12-08 09:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just maybe watch a porn where there is a lesbian 3some and say, "Would you ever like to do that." You can to try not being too open about it like you planned it. And if you aren't into porn then you can ask a friend to ask her if she would ever do it and you can go from there. Don't be too forward like you want to do it. Make it come off as an idea out of curiosity.
2006-12-08 10:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way it would change your relationship is if one of the two of you were jealous. If this something you both would want to do and know with absolute certainty that you could handle the moment I would so go for it. If there any doubts about anything this single act could destroy your relationship.
2006-12-08 09:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mike E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay to begin with YOU DON'T WANT TO DO A 3 SOME WITH NO ONE! The reason i say that is b/c i've been there and done it but it WAS NOT my idea!...IT DESTROYS YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It also causes ALOT of drama that is not worth it.It will also KILL your friendship with the person you have it with...not including your man may fall for the girl.I know b/c i`ve been there and done it hun. I hope this will help you out and you will think twice before you do the 3 some with ANYONE!
2006-12-08 10:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy has nothing to do with it. I heard some stories of destroyed lesbian relationships because one of the partners started liking the 3rd that was brought in and started sneaking around with her.
2006-12-08 12:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very risky. Bringing a third person in sexually to an established relationship could jeopardize it. There could be jealousy problems or you or your gf could have some more than sexual feelings for the other person.
2006-12-08 12:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the trust between the people involved. if jealousy is even the slightest possibility, I'd say it was a bad Idea.
2006-12-08 10:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya I wanna do it too..do you want to do a FFF or MFF?
ive never done either but havent found the right people i think it would be cool if everyone was on the same page so no one gets upset or uptight:D
2006-12-08 10:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by ceecee800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋