my bf is REALLY REALLY shy. he barly talks to me in front of people, but i no its only because he doesnt want to say something stupid and for me to stop talking to him. i secretly asked him what he would do if i kissed him, he said he woulkd kiss me back, he also said he wouldnt mind if i rushed things wit him. i dont no if i should kiss him or not or if he is mentally ready for this?
2006-12-08 09:47:24 · 20 answers · asked by genius13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetie, you sound quite young...
i wouldnt rush things with your boyfriend.. things will happen in their own good time.
i think you need to get your boyfriend to talk to you more... perhaps you 2 can go do some activities together, like bowling or something you both enjoy, that might get him to be less shy.
good luck
2006-12-08 09:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally im not sure either but i think by the sounds of it if he is shy bout saying somtin stupid in front of u or in front of other people and if he wouldnt kiss u back then thats not a really good BF but thats my oppinoun and mabe he really likes u a lot but he just doesnt show it so i wouldnt no wats the best for u to do either so just go with ur gut instinct
2006-12-08 09:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you too need to get more comfortable with eachother first. He shouldnt be embarrassed to talk to you in front of people whether he is shy or not. He can talk quietly. Maybe you too should hang out alone sometime and just talk. See what level each of you are on and how you can work together with it. Good Luck!
2006-12-08 09:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shyness will wear off and he will get a little more brave as the relationship proceeed.... When you first start a relationship it scary to kiss for the first time but hell after time, most guys will take a dump without closing the door...
2006-12-08 09:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really see what the kissing has to do with him talking 2 u nfront of ppl.. and about kissing him, go ahead and do it. if he wasnt ready ull just feel it. if he wants more he'll ask for it..
but dont rush things ever, it doesnt lead to any good
2006-12-08 09:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by MAB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him unexpectedly and see what he does but not in public. in you room watching tv or a movie on a date. then once done talk about the shyness. and how he liked the kiss. say love is ment to share and you are being awefully shy about our relationship and i like it out in the open. see what he says and then tell me. hope i helped
2006-12-08 09:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by GuNthEr'S_girl►♦♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that if he's shy then you have to make the first move or it won't get made. Which in a round about way means to go for it.
2006-12-08 09:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not save your next Kiss for your Wedding Date? It make it more romantic for the both of you.
2006-12-08 09:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by 2 know Him & 2 Make Him known 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are each of you, and how long have you been seeing each other? Kids typically start experimenting with smooches and kissing in grade school, but dating should wait until high school (16ish yrs old).
2006-12-08 09:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush anything cause then your forcing the relationship. Just let things flow and when things are meant to happen they will happen and it will be special
2006-12-08 09:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by Manita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋