Help!! My boyfriend left me for my best friend!!!! Well, last month, i went with my boyfriend and my best friend to subway and when i came out of the bathroom, i saw them holding hands. At first i thought it was a handshake, but then he kissed her on the cheeks and said, ''i love you''. at that moment i felt really sad, but i pretended i didnt see anything and went back to our table. When they saw me, my best friend jumped and started being nice to me.then, a few weeks ago, we went to the movies to see ''Saw 3''. My best friend wanted to sit next to my boyfriend and my boyfriend said ok. Then, when a scary scene happened\, i saw my best friend hug him closely and stayed there for a few mins. I felt that my boyfriend knew i was watching them, so he whispered something in her ear. After that, she let go. I'm going on a date with my boyfriend tomorrow. My best friend wants to come along...What should i do???!?!?!
2006-12-08 09:31:04 · 19 answers · asked by Connie... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If this is really happening, why are you still with him and why are you still talking to her? They must not care that much about you if they are doing this to you. I say tell your friend that she's not invited and dump him after your date. Get one last meal out of him before you're done with him. You should have way more self respect for yourself. You are probably a wonderful person and maybe somebody else would like to learn that about you. Get rid of them and move on! There are always better fish in the sea. It may not be noticeable now, but you will realize it. Just do what is obvious. And A BEST FRIEND WOULDN'T DO THAT TO YOU!!!!!! Your best friend should be there for you to talk to and confide in. Not try and steal your man away. Come on! He's telling her that he loves her. What more do you need? Good luck and remember that you are wonderful and deserve to be treated like a princess, not a piece of meat.
2006-12-08 09:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no, since it's a date between you and your boyfriend. Not you, your best friend, and boyfriend. After the movie, you should definately talk to your boyfriend. Make him pay for the movie, though, that way you get at least one last thing out of him, if he leaves you for sure for your best friend.
2006-12-08 09:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Weston 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That tramp,she takes photos of herself making pouty faces on the digital camera,in simple terms like a slut does. OMG OMG OMG!!!! Edit-what's truly humorous is all of the morons who thinks that's severe.
2016-12-18 10:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by coupe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your best friend that its your boyfriend not hers and really you two need some space when on dates. if she feels so strongly about being with him and your boyfriend seems to feel the same towards her then maybe you and your guy weren't meant to be. now usually friends just feel left out which may be what your friend is feeling or lonely but whatever the case, talk to your best friend because you know for sure you can talk to them.
2006-12-08 09:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by SunshineShortie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call your boyfriend aside on a day ur bestfriend won't be there or even if she doesn't give you guys space,call him and tell her to excuse you guys.Tell him you've been seeing what's been going on btw two of "em and ask him if he has feeling for her also ask him who he choose that you're tired of this game he's playing.Hear what he has to say and tell him if he loves you he has to stop flirting with ur buddy.After discussing with him you can make ur final decision on both of them.Cos for one i think they don't know the meaning of been friends with someone.I think its better you speak up and find the peace you seek.Cheers.
2006-12-08 10:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's really, really, really sh.itty. If my friend and boyfriend wanted to get together, I'd hope they had the guts to come tell me about it rather than sneaking around. People like that aren't good friends.
You should confront and dump both of them. Though I know it's really hard to do and scary to find new friends and boyfriends. You don't need people like this.
2006-12-08 09:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by nachtkennerin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really need to toughen up. Whats all this pretending you didnt see? Why would you do that? Its crazy. Stop now and get some self respect, dump him and her and find a life where you dont have to pretend.
2006-12-08 09:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by artistry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what the f*** kind of question is that? why are you asking us if your best friend should go along with you on a date? how many people do you know of who do that? tell her to get a life and leave your man alone.
2006-12-08 09:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by goof ball 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him and Cut your friend off. That is the most disrespectful thing anyone could do.Especially your friend . If she was really your friend trust and be leave she wouldn't be datein your man how hoeish of them both. Really sweet heart you can do better .
2006-12-08 09:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movie, give her a humiliating public beating, throw a drink at your EX boyfriend, and then walk away with a sexy new boyfriend.
2006-12-08 09:34:07 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋