ever week a bunch of older lads come and beat up my best friend she cant stop it and dosent know why they do it i have *** and helped a few times and hit them to warn them off I got done and now im not allowed near them or i will be kicked u of my school i cant just stand and watch and when we told the teachers it just made them worse we told her mum and she dident care or do anything about it and we dont know what to do anymore I was her protection and im not allowed to help anymore. what can i do
2006-12-08 09:29:14 · 32 answers · asked by xxx_gothic_queen_xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell the guiadance counselor or try telling a priciple even though he got mad at u and threatened u with being kicked out of school he may listen to u if u sit down and have a real conversation with him and tell him its really important say "my friend is being beaten up and the only reason i was beating them up was cuz of her i cant stand there and watch my best friend being beaten to death i cant be expected to watch that and do nothing yes i should have came and got u guys but now my friend is going thru some real trouble and i need someone to believe me cuz her parents done believe that anythings happening" i know that those are like the last 2 people u may wanna talk to but it may be the only way to get them to listen to what u have to say and save your friend
2006-12-08 10:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince your friend to call the police or go to the police station
in the area and file a complaint. I dont understand her mom but go over her head if this is a serious situation and personal safty is involved.
have your friend tried talking to the principal of the school
are these incidents occuring at the school if so the principal should help if not call the police or child protective agency
good luck
2006-12-08 09:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by hardwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the local police department and report this. They will handle for everyone. That happening is an atrocity. Been there done this and walked after beating them down a few times too. If you are afraid to be seen call them and report it. Tell no one that you did.
2006-12-08 09:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know when and where this usually happens. go ask the cops to be undercover nearby.
If you don't stand up to bullies, they will bully everyone.
It's a hard thing to do. but it has to be done.
as far as the school goes. Let them know they will be sued if they don't
stop it because by ignoring it, they are condoning it. A simple letter from a lawyer will do that. Most lawyers would do that for free.
Or just F-ing kill the bastards. It's self defense after all.
2006-12-08 09:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult one
Why is no-one listening that your mate is being bullied, can't believe her mum is not caring either......
Perhaps your parents can go and speak to the school and get them to ask the teachers what your expected to do if you see her being beat up again......
Its such a tough one, and I know I could not just stand back and watch it happen, have you not got and older sister that could threaten them off...... Poor you, poor your friend I feel for you both
2006-12-08 09:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally,when a bully boy was going around picking on younger ones around the town where I live a few boys larger than him took him to a secluded spot and had a quiet "Word" with him and warned him what would happen if it kept on.Funnily enough he never picked on anyone after that.
2006-12-08 09:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by danny261178 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the police involved thats the only way. Any guy that hits a girl deserves to charged with assault. Thats the lowest of the low, any man hitting a girl.
2006-12-08 09:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by michaelglanville 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget the teachers- go directly to the superintendent and report the incidents, making certain that you add the fact that the school teachers and principal have done nothing to resolve the issue.
2006-12-08 09:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and have them charged with assault. Your friend should not wait for the next assault. Take her to the police station to file charges against them. Don't let your friend get beat up anymore.
2006-12-08 09:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend could try doing this ......
have her bring a very cheap bottle of perfume with her
(as girly smelling as possible)
the next time those boys threaten her,
once they get close enough she should spray them all
with lots of perfume. No boys want to smell like girls,
and it would also make it easier for her to prove to
school principal which boys were harrassing her
(cuz the perfume smell would still be on them)
2006-12-08 09:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋