Me and my friend had been hanging out for like 2 years and then she got a boyfriend and its been a month since we've talked and she just called me last night. What shuld I do?
2006-12-08 09:01:17 · 11 answers · asked by Zoe H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because its new, exciting, and you just want to spend all your time with him. Its possible that this might be Mr Right! Our life has a tendency to fork out. We start taking different roads, or doing different things, and when we don't share the same scheme in life, this is the way it goes. In time after all have gone their routes its pretty amazing, that you end up on the same road again, later on. Just keep being her friend, and stay in contact, just in case things don't work out for the duration of eternity. We all set in both positions as our life matures and changes. But its not a ending. One day, there will soon be a new beginning. :) The circle of life.
2006-12-08 09:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal for your friends to do that. My best friend did that to me when she got a boyfriend, and it really bothered me, I talked to her about it, but things never really got back to what they were. She married him, and know she has a lot more time, and wants to go back to being my best friend, the only problem is I have a fiancee now ;) It;s just that the guy in your life becomes everything, and you just tend to ignore your friends, give her some time, she'll come out of it! Good luck to you.
2006-12-08 09:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie its just like a process every girl goes through,when they get their bf its like they've got their world/life with them and they need no one else.You'll feel left out and not needed but try talking to her if she's the listening type then after hearing from her you'll know ur next move.But in the meantime hang out with other friends just to ease everything.Cheer up gurl.
2006-12-08 09:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it think it all depends on how long you have been Friends. If you have been Friends for a very long time I think she trusts in your friendship enough that she wants to hang out with her boyfriend more because she doesn't know him as well, where as she knows you very well. I equate it to "new toy syndrome" eventually she'll come back to you, just make sure you are still open to the friendship when she does.
this has recently happened to me as well. Though she'll usually call me up if she needs relationship help, or someone to listen to her.
2006-12-08 09:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by rubberducky20@ameritech.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, take it easy! You can't expect your girlfriend to be more interested in you than in her boyfriend ... so get on out there and find yourself a nice boyfriend, too .... and take up cooking,... it will do you good... and learn to arrange flowers... girlfriends are great, but poo bah! You have your own life ...
2006-12-08 09:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what happened to her man...Pretend that your to busy to talk. It's a shame she doesn't know how to juggle her friendship with you and her man. Are you sure you want to continue being her friend. I would kick her butt to the curb.
Good luck
2006-12-08 09:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that she found someone to be with - it's hard out there and when you do get the opportunity to be with your man you take it. it is absolute nothing against you.
2006-12-08 09:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how you feel, because she probably think everything between you 2 are peaches and cream. So tell her and if you don't than she will never know how you feel.
2006-12-08 09:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Qui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem with my friends, its not that she does not have time for you, its that she does not have time for you, its that she and her new BO need time to themselves to get to know each other don't be mean, just tell her that you really missed her and that you thought that she had forgotten about her
2006-12-08 09:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by pyeface26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋