I make $0 now and am in school and will graduate in May, we both have student loans and now he makes 60 K , I live in a half state and plan to move to WI, should I wait to divorce him until I graduate and move or now?
2006-12-08 09:00:13 · 9 answers · asked by trajan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you dont really love him and dont really plan on having a future with him then i guess you should divorce him now. but if you really need the money then yea you should wait till he gets you the house and maybe pay for a few bills until your maiking money agian!>.<
2006-12-08 09:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WI is a half state. Got divorced there. You get half of his and he gets half of yours. Bills and money. So be careful. The one who starts procedures for the divorce will pay for a lawyer and court cost. In WI when you petition for divorce you will have a 120 day waitig period before you are seen by the court.
On the day you petition. All bills and money are seen as of that day. You will have mediation at the court to decide who gets and pays what and who is responsible for them (bills). Then you have to makesure you have all the bills in hand not only for your lawyer but also for the court to prove indebtednes. Or, payment of bills.
If you have no property or children, good. Less painful. If all you have is college bills easy. Since he is the bread winner and you aren't. You will have to ask the courts advice first. Then marrage councelling (HAAH). Talk to him first. Agree with things before you decide. If you can't work it out the State of WI has a divorce proceedure booklet you can get from the state.
2006-12-08 18:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by jseakman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a half state?
If you want a divorce, why wait? Do U have any kids? If you do then you will be entitled to child support based on his income and maybe alimony as well.
Why do you want a divorce? It's miserable. people judge you when you say ex-husband. They assume you can't get it together. Do all you can to fix it. I know from whence I speak. I am a recent divorcee and although it was totally necessary to save my soul, and sanity, it was so hard on my kids and hard on my physche.
2006-12-08 17:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce does cost quite a bit but if you are truly unhappy don't drag it out until you have the money. Most courts will defer your payments, and I'm sure if you needed to you could make small minimal payments even if you have to borrow the money. Good luck!
2006-12-08 17:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your truly unhappy leave now, you might have to go through a tough divorce any ways
2006-12-08 17:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Wasabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on internet..many annulments out there...you can get a mexican divorce annulment...and it is reconized by the us government..and it can be done in 30 days...he will never know
2006-12-08 18:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why use him? Have some integrity. Just go now.
2006-12-08 17:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a whore and stay with him. Or grow up and get out.
2006-12-08 17:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with what you told us, I dont think it matters.
flip a coin
2006-12-08 17:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋