My wife and i have very infrequent and uneventful sex, she is just not a very sexual person never has been. the sexual frustration is really getting to me. Any others in the same position??
2006-12-08 08:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, but we always had a great and kind of wild sex life. About 2 months ago it just stopped. I have tried talking to her about it, but she has no answers. And to top it all of she runs around the house naked or half naked.
I am getting worried because I don't know how much longer I can take it, the temptations are getting harder to resist.
2006-12-08 09:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Todd V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bill,
If she has never been a very sexual person and you are, why did you get married? I don't care what anyone says, it is a huge part of the equation. If it changes over time, that is different and normal, but why did you marry someone who didn't seem to like sex in the first place?
Now that you are married however, you need to find out the reason she's not into it, and there are a million. Hopefully:
A. She has some problem that a therapist can help you guys with.
B. You don't suck in bed and are unaware of it.
C. She's not having an affair.
2006-12-08 18:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I sort of wish our sex life was a little more "eventful", but my husband doesn't seem to have much interest in sex. We do a lot of other fun things together, tho - so it's not much of a problem. I made that choice when I married him; I knew up front what I was getting, and decided to stick with it. No regrets.
2006-12-08 17:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK THE KEY TO OPEN THIS DOOR IS THE SAME KEY U R TRYING TO USE FOR THE BED IT DIDNT WORK THEN & U WENT IN & NOW THAT IT DOESNT WORK U WANT OUT?? THATS NOT FAIR... PUT DOWN THE KEYS & OPEN YOUR MOUTH, TALK TO HER, WATCH MOVIES, SEEK COUNSELING, READ PORN WITH HER, WORK WITH YOUR WIFE TO BRING OUT THAT SEXUALITY U OBVIOUSLY KNOW IS IN HER, BUT PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE & CLOSED MOUTHS DONT GET FED.. IF SHES NEVER BEEN A SEXUAL WOMAN THEN YOU KNOW ITS NOT GONNA COME NATURALLY RIGHT?? SHE HAS TO GO THROUGH SEX IS GREAT TRAINING & ITS GONNA TAKE A WHILE BUT IT WILL BE FUN & WORTH IT IF & WHEN SHE IS WILLING TO ENROLL~GOOD LUCK & I HOPE THE TWO OF YOU HAVE A GREAT TIME BEING INTRODUCED TO THE NEW & IMPROVED LOVERS YOU WILL BECOME, EXPLORE WITH YOUR WIFE, MAKE LOVE MAKING FUN & BY ALL MEANS PLEASE AIM TO PLEASE, DONT FORCE HER OR GIVE ORDERS THE ACT OF LOVE MAKING SHOULD BE ENJOYABLE 4 ALL PARTIES...
2006-12-08 17:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was getting it regular.But she make it a point to let me know she didnt want to.That sucks the fun right out of it.She left now.Time to move on.
2006-12-08 17:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat! Why not consider going to a sex therapist together?
2006-12-08 17:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋