me and this guy went out for 4 months and he treated me liked no other guy has, like a person. i've asked this question before and i thought i would get over him eventually, but its been 3 months and i cant stop thinking about him. we havent really talked to each other since we broke up and the break up wasnt even that bad. i was the one to break it off, i didnt want to because i was and still am in love with him, because he wasnt sure of his feelings for me, ya know like he didnt know if he loved me anymore. anyway, i want him back, even to be friends would set my mind at ease, but i think he doesnt even want anything to do with me like he doesnt care. and another thing to complicate this i'm probably moving very soon. i've told him how i feel but that was 2 weeks after we broke up. what should i do, i still love him and i know he doesnt care about me.
2006-12-08 08:57:27 · 6 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, I say this all the time,what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Stay away from him and if you move away that's better. You miss him because you didn't do anything to take your mind off him. Don't talk to him, don't look at him, nothing. You gotta go cold turkey, it's gonna hurt and be hard at first but as time passes you'll be over him or stronger. Think about why you broke it off and keep that in mind. You now what you want and deserve, don't stand for less. Good for you he wasn't caring enough for you so you let him go, there's nothing wrong with that. But if you even try to go back he will know he can walk all over you,and he will try. I hope you keep your foot down and keep I'm mind that there's better out there. Good luck.
2006-12-08 09:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by me me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are hopelessly in love with someone that in not in love with you, the best thing to do is stay active, go out with friends, make believe you don't care, meet other guys, have fun. Men are fickle as if they know they have you, then they don't want you. So take a deep breathe, exhale... look into a mirror and tell yourself you deserve better. Go find it.
2006-12-08 17:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, You did the right thing to break it off. If he loves you he wil call you and ask you back. If you go back he will treat you bad anyway. Simply if he doesnt love you and secondly because you made yourself easy. Try not to think about it and date other guys. He knows how you feel, cos you told him, so its his turn to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!! Take care!! x
2006-12-09 06:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be darling, the easiest thing to do is keep yourself occupied hobbies, work, a pet, working out; anything. Just don't let this consume you if you were as important to him he would have tried to communicate with you already........love is a sweet thing when it happens but it hurts like hell when it ends. Maybe moving is going to be a great thing!! You'll meet new people and you'll find new and exciting things to occuppy your time.......time is the answer. But do not wait for him ok. If it's meant to be it will be.
2006-12-08 17:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by maybeline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on trying to forget him. Sounds like a no win situation to me.
2006-12-08 17:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go now. there's plenty of guys out there just go have some fun!
2006-12-08 17:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by ClaralubsEli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋