Anybody out there feel they have unresolved business/feelings with their ex? Things just spiralled out of control and you both made decisions that were wrong and ultimately ended up divorced. Is this a normal feeling associated with divorce? Is it possible to love someone but not be happy with them? Is it possible to be with someone else while deep down inside you want to be with the person you just let go?
2006-12-08 08:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OH GOD YES!! Well atleast I used to feel this way. And you your feelings are perfectly normal. Right now your heart is leading your mind. Try and turn it around and let the mind move you! You will see things clearly and relize breaking up with your ex was probably a good thing!
2006-12-08 09:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lulu76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a normal reaction to a divorce that's unresolved. You know that deep inside, the divorce happened for a reason...you just need to find your closure. It is definitely possible to love someone and not be happy with them...but if you stay...can you deal with your unhappiness? Find your peace and move on.
2006-12-08 08:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Just Helpin Out 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to love someone very much yet the pair may be incompatible on very fundamental levels. I'm not suggesting that anything is wrong, but you might try seeing a trusted couselor about your unresolved feelings. It really does help.
2006-12-08 08:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Holiday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
sounds like you didn't resolve everything before you both decided to get a divorce,you have to make sure you've done evetything
humanly and reasonably possible to save the marriage.
I was so sick of my husband because he cheated on me,not once but many times,he messed up the finances,even today
he's the same way,but I didn't leave him until I was sure I
had done everything possible to save our marriage,it almost
killed me to leave him,because I really loved him,but I knew
I had done everything I could do to try to keep our marriage
together,so I didn't have any regrets.remember if the two of
you are divorced,you have to think about why you got divorced
before you think about getting back together
good luck
2006-12-08 09:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce takes a while so there should have been plenty of time to resolve any feelings or make-up if possible. If it was meant to be it would have worked out. Don't beat yourself up and take your time when jumping into a new relationship.
2006-12-08 08:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh too a lot! somewhat with a pal from childhood...we were given in a stupid strive against about some thing and we've not spoken on the grounds that (that replaced into wayyy decrease back in extreme college). i truly might want to ask for forgiveness to her, yet i imagine we've a lot of issues to workout consultation...
2016-11-30 08:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definately possible to love someone but not be happy with them. That's where I am. I love my man. He and I were happy once before, and we have two perfect kids. But we do nothing but argue anymore. We are both depressed all the time, and never want to be around eachother. I miss him, but he's right here... It's weird... It's complicated...
2006-12-08 08:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Butterfly ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it takes time to get over someone, some people compare to getting over the death of a loved one.
2006-12-08 08:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that how i feel about my honey jonny depp
jk
just talk to ur ex and explain how u feel...who know he/she might even feel the same way
2006-12-08 08:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by genius13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i feel the same way!! and i dont no what to do! how do do it
2006-12-08 08:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋