Does he REALLY love me???
His still Married and separated with 3 kids. His around 38, And he says he needs time to sort himself out, I love him but need him to make more effort although he says he loves me too and I can feel it sometimes and we have a strong connection. I am 25. I dont mind his kids at all and would never take their mothers place. I am totally in love but terrified his not that serious and that He just says he loves me.
He sometimes says his busy and wont always call when he says and I cant get him to spend nights with me.
We have agreed to be just friends and thats it but every time i see him we end up kissing passionately. I wish i could let go or know what to do. I guess im just crazy!
2006-12-08 08:40:33 · 5 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He says he doesnt love his wife anymore and he has told her. They dont live together she only visits the kids.
2006-12-08 08:44:13 · update #1
I have been dating other guys, He knows, but his still calling me and i find it hard. He says he'd rather be my friend then to lose me completely..
2006-12-08 09:03:47 · update #2
I feel bad for you, so I'll be nice. You are selling yourself short, way short. Dont you think you deserve better. A guy can tell you he loves you but that doesnt mean he does. Its how he treats you,and what he does for you. Now I'm not saying he doesnt but come have enough love for yourself to know you deserve someone who is not married, who will spend any minute he can with you, who misses you(not by kisses), who aleast calls you back and answers your calls. Let him go theres better out there, he still has a wife and its not you. How much respect or love do you really think he has for you. LOVE yourself respect yourself everything else will fall in place. Leave him and when or "if" he gets divorced he'll wait for you,dont wait for him. Good luck.
2006-12-08 08:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by me me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to take on the responsibility of taking care of three kids and THE MAN? Well if you are up for it......... Good luck!
Keep in mind though that he is still married!!
2006-12-08 16:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the question does he love you... the answer is probably yes or is the question does he love you enough to divorce his wife and spend his time with you?? that would be probably a no.
2006-12-08 16:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by thoor_ballylee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him to the dog pound with the rest of the dogs and find a nice single man. If he not divorced he's cheating and if he'll cheat FOR you he'll cheat ON you.
2006-12-08 16:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crazy in lov...u cant do n e thing but wait....it will soon come
2006-12-08 16:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋