Im 15 years old in highschool.
Everyone I know is aloud to go to parties at night and have fun.
But me on the other hand Im not aloud to go to parties unless its like a day time birthday party...And my curfew is at 9:30
I got invited to a party tonight and I really want to go out and have fun.But the party starts the time of my curfew.
So what do I do? What can I do to go to the party?/I really want to go
Its not fair
2006-12-08 08:17:46 · 13 answers · asked by Sandy 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
PEOPLE IF YOUR GOING TO LECTURE ME THEN PLEASE DONT COMMENT OR SAY ANYTHING
i didnt ask for your little prep talks
2006-12-08 08:24:00 · update #1
Well you are only 15 so therefore there are some rules that you have to follow. If you really want to go then tell your parents that this is something that you really want to do. Say that you are responsible and that you wont do something to break their trust. If they don't go for that then say OK, don't fight or ague. Because in the near future, if you want to go out and have a good time then they will look back on that night and realize that you were a good sport about them saying no!
Because you are so young, I can see where they are coming from! Just be patient your time will come to have a good time!
2006-12-08 08:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are generally responsible and if you haven't abused your parents' trust in the past, I would ask them to let you have a "trial run." Ask them if you can go and say you'll stick to their conditions. Agree to be home by 11 or that they'll be parental supervision at the party, etc. If they still don't let you go, then ask if you show them that you're capable of responsibility, they'll let you go to a party in the future. For example, if you do all your chores and your homework this week then you get to go to a party next weekend.
Also, be thankful that your parents care enough about you to be interested in your well being. However, some parents can be too overprotective and then when kids get a taste of freedom in college they end up in a "Girls Gone Wild" video.
2006-12-08 11:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by ivybear98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that there will be no adult supervision at this party? If there is, have your mom call them and talk to them about what will be happening. If theres no parents there, you shouldnt really be going, those parties can get out of hand and you will find yourself in some pretty bad situations.
2006-12-08 08:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bibsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 and I'm in your shoes right now. My parents always want me back at 10:00 sharp, which sucks because I have really wanted to go to a late night movie.
I think you should talk to your friends(or whoever invited you to their party). Explain to them your problem, and ask them to start throwing parties at an earlier time. I'm sure they will understand.
2006-12-08 08:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres a multiple answer here...
1- sneak out...just dont get caught..make your bed look like your sleeping in it (i did that when i was 15 & i lived with my "dad" & step mom in hawaii...it was TOO easy).& make it look realisitic too, play music or something & if you have a tv hopefully it has a timer on it...set it to go on & off at certain times at night & stuff so they think that your still there...lol
2- ask to sleep over one of your friends house (one with a cool parent that lets them go party lol)
3- do what your parents tell you to do lol
2006-12-08 09:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Twinkle in My Eyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try telling your parents how you feel. its a weekend and if your chores are done there should be no problem. my parents were overprotective also so i know how you feel. eventually though when i grew up and had kids, i realized that they only did it because they loved me and wanted to protect me, but i do plan on letting my kids have a life, but still keep them safe. good luck
2006-12-08 08:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, It may seem unfair and maybe it is but your parents are scare to let you go. Make sure you let your parents know where you'll be and who's gonna be there. Maybe they let you go.
2006-12-08 09:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by meme1824 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep over at a friends house that is also goin to the party then go.
2006-12-08 09:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by I♥RD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 your 15 and have a curfew for a reason.......you will appreciate it later when you see all the stupid stuff your friends do because their parents dont care...
2006-12-08 08:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2be in march! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try and see if ur parents will let u leave the party early?
2006-12-08 08:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋