Well, I've kissed this girl and I liked it. She's bi, but I'm not sure about myself.
2006-12-08 07:57:05 · 30 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well only two of my friends know I'm bi but I just relized I'm bi. I'm scard to tell the rest of my friends them because their straight and I don't want to lose them.
2006-12-09 03:30:46 · update #1
If someone is truly your friend, they will love you no matter what. When I came out, it really showed who really cares about me. And the ones that have a problem with it, well, do you really want to be associated with someone who doesn't like who you are? Be yourself. I promise in the end it's the only thing that will make you happy.
2006-12-08 08:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are bi then it's just a part of who you are. if your friends can't accept you for you then they aren't real friends. My friends (well, a most of them didn't, but a few did) accepted the fact that i was bisexual. But u said right now you are not sure, so give it time and figure it out, don't rush it, or try to make yourself something you are not, just always remember, be yourself and be happy w/ that.
2006-12-08 16:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cheezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends don't accept you for who you are then they really aren't your friends at all. I learned that the hard way when I first came out. You really find out in a hurry who your real friends are and which ones would talk behind your back.
Good luck to you and have a Rainbow Day!
2006-12-08 16:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are most of your female friends are already doing each other anyways. Being "BI" seems to be the in thing these days so dont worry about it. Dive in, lick some kitty clitty and come back and tell us how you like it!
2006-12-08 16:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're bi, you're bi, explore that side of you, you can't keep it hidden. If you want to know if you're bi, explore that side anyways and you'll soon realise.
Mostly your friends won't have a problem, but it may initially be a shock to them and take them time to come to terms with it. Be tactful, and of course dip your toes in the water to test.
2006-12-08 15:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that you have anything to be ashamed of, but, many people prefer to keep their sex life private, so there's no need to talk about it really. Once you start to date, and figure out if you are bi (or not) your friends will find out, depending on who you're dating. If they don't approve, perhaps they aren't true freinds.
2006-12-08 16:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most friends don't care. I don't personally know your friends but I just told this girl and she just laughed. It doesn't mean a lot to most people since most people are coming out of the closet now a days.
2006-12-08 17:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur friends r truly ur friends, they'll accept u as u r, even if their gurls 2. i no someone who waz bi, but kept it inside of her and ended up almost committing suicide, but she got help and now her friends don't care. they had to get used to it at first and she had to promise not to hit on them, but it all worked out in the end. just give it a shot, what have u got to loose. yeah, ur friends, but then they wouldn't be ur friends. am i right?? good luck though!! hope it all works out!:-)
2006-12-08 16:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Openess to sexual experimenataion is like soo cool. When I had my first encounter with another girl I was like soo, did I do that, but later I found it was natural and not something that had to be broadcast to other friends. It is amazing how you find who your supporters are, how you find other likeminded friends and how the other just like eventually leave you alone.
2006-12-08 16:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Juli S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOme will be grossed out; some will use it as an excuse to maneuver you into a menage a trois, some it means nothing, as you are still a good friend
2006-12-08 16:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋