9 monts ago I Lost my memaw and she was my best friend and I miss her so much Its so hard
2006-12-08 07:37:03 · 17 answers · asked by katie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes I have... she will always be missed but it does get easier to deal with as time goes by :o(
2006-12-08 07:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my Grandma 9 years ago and it still hurts. She was my best friend, my confidant, my sounding board and the one person in the world that I could always talk to. I wish I could tell you that things would get less painful...but it won't. You may think of her a little less often but every time you do the pain of the loss comes back. My condolences to you and I wish you well.
2006-12-08 07:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss through death is REALLY hard. I have no grandparents living anymore. I'm 43 and STILL think about them, the fond memories the great times together and wishing they were still here with me!
Our family is reall close. At least we have that "support system" when there's a death.
Support is VERY important when it comes to coping wth things, especially death. If you don't have someone in your family that you can go to, consider a support group in your local area.
There is no "time frame" for any one person's grieving. Everyone grieves differently and on their own time. You have to find YOUR way of deaing with the situation and doing what's best for you!
I'm so very sorry for your loss - please accept my prayers! Please take my advice, so that you can move on. You'll always have the special memories and one day, you'll join her!
I'm probably not much help, but at the very least, wanted to express my sorrow to you.
2006-12-08 08:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...I have...I was 20 years old and it was probably the hardest thing that I have been through in my life. It has been 2 years and I still miss her every single day. Sometimes I dream about her which is so wonderful, but then waking up makes it hard once again knowing that she is not there.
2006-12-08 07:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my Mawmaw a month ago. I think about her all the time and miss her so much. I remind myself that she is at peace, no longer has to ride in her wheelchair, doesn't have to mess with those dentures, she is walking around, looking beautiful and just waiting for the rest of her family.
2006-12-08 07:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Laney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to lose someone - the best thing you can do is always talk about her & let her live on with you for the rest of your life. She wouldn't want you to be sad - so cheer up & go do something the two of you loved to do together - it will make you feel better.
2006-12-08 07:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by dani77356 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have. i lost my grandma in april and my grandfather 6 days before my 30th b-day in August. I was very close to both of them and not a day goes by that i don't think about them. Its very sad! They say time heals...i guess we just wait and see. I am so sorry for your loss sweetie! Take care of yourself and Good Luck!
2006-12-08 08:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Big D's Sexy Peach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way, but everyone losses thier grandma. I lost mine and lost both of my real grandfathers and my step grandfather...who was my best friend...so I do know how you feel. Beleave me you are not alone.
I have yahoo messenger so feel free to contact me anytime.
2006-12-08 07:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by wedding5_26_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lost mine many years ago - its hard I know
How about an outlet for all that unused affection. Maybe your church could set you up to help out one or some of the older people who could use someone to run errands for them or even just to check up on them once in a while ormaybe just go for a walk with them. Might help to have someone to care for.
2006-12-08 07:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Havent but my moms grandma just passed away 3 weeks ago and it was really hard on her because she was really close to her...sorry about that though....hope ur doing well
2006-12-08 07:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by tiara08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. back in July. and it sucks.
There is a bok called "Ten Steps of the Grieving Prcoess"(Ithink that's right anyways) its a good guide thru the process.
2006-12-08 07:38:41 · answer #11 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋