i keep catching him trying to talk to other women.What hurts the most is that he does it right after we have sex. Am i not good enough? Please help what should i do?
2006-12-08 07:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by djd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him. If not then leave him. I would be just as upset as you if my husband was trying to talk to women before or after having sex. I mean i dont mind the chatting and he has coworkers of course. There is a limit though. If it were mine i would confront him about it.
2006-12-08 07:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is looking for some outside entertainment. If a person wants to cheat it usually has very little to do with their partner. It is a flaw in their character. Have you confronted him about this? Word of advice-once the trust is gone, it is very difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. If it were me, I'd get a keylogger such as PC Pandora, get the proof and closure I needed and move on. Good Luck, hon.
2006-12-08 15:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes got some serious problems if he is chatting to other women after u 2 have sex. Maybe u 2 should see a counseler.
2006-12-08 15:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs counseling! WHy after sex would he even want to chat? Maybe hes just bored!
2006-12-08 15:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be chatting with other women. I wouldn't like it one bit if my husband did. He's showing you zero respect. Tell him to get off the computer and chat with you. How would he like it if you chatted with other men? Ask Him. I bet that wouldn't go over to well.
2006-12-08 15:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by autumn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow . tell him 2 that you don't like him talking 2 other women on tha computer . like seriously , who wants a relationship with someone they met from tha internet ? i'd tell him if he don't get his a*s off tha computer &&; stop talking 2 other women that he ain't getting sh*t no more . haha , but thas just mee . he wouldn't like if you talked 2 other men on tha computer right after yall have sex . so tell him 2 stop being an asshole ! =)
2006-12-08 15:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by PiCk.™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to remove messenger from your computer. If you use it, it will be a sacrafice also for you to get rid of it, but do it. If that doesnt work counseling.
2006-12-08 15:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex him up until he falls asleep
2006-12-08 16:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him, chances are he is meeting these women he's talking to, face to face in the bedroom...........
2006-12-08 15:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my hubby be in it...i just want respect from him
2006-12-08 15:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋