how do i spend time with a man that is always doing stuff?

Question

im seeing this guy and i want to buy a house with him but he to tied up with his kids all the time.

Answer 1

i dont think he has any interest in you or else he would find time to spend with you.use your common sense i have kids to I'm a single dad i always have time to share with my friends.he is lying to you for some reason.

Answer 2

If he has kids and you want to be with him, you have to learn how to do "family things". Then after you do that for awhile, suggest that he get a babysitter and take you out for dinner or a movie. If that doesn't work and you don't like doing family things, then maybe he's too tied up for you.

Answer 3

1-youare not a big deal to him 2-he is to worry about his kids 3- he has a trauma situation on the past that he does not want to face 4-he is not looking for a serious relationship,i suggest that before to be focus in a house make your relationship stronger otherwise it will not be for a long period.ideas:share with him and his kids but making activities that eveybody enjoy,like sport(go to the games),video games,fishing ,knowing others places of the usa,and when you have chance alone with him go to his inner and try to open his real fear or situation,go ahead a relationship is better when you have a process of building.

Answer 4

well i suggest that you talk to him, and tell him how you feel..
let him know that you should spend more time alone for the relationship to be able to work..

Answer 5

Well his kids should come first, so get over that or find someone else.

Answer 6

then spend time with him and his kids

Answer 7

He's just not that into YOU!