2006-12-08 07:07:58 · 16 answers · asked by gnb503 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
because they are using it as an excuse to be unfaithful....an excuse is all it really is...it isnt the men's fault at all...its theirs.
2006-12-08 08:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personaly do not approve of soldiers marrying early and having a couple of children before they are deployed, because it seems like its unfair on everyone involved. Its unfair for the soldier because all he wants is some support yet his wife starts acting stupid at home and whining to people about how she is miserable. Then its not fair for the woman because she has to worry about her husband the entire time. Then last but not least its unfair on the children who have to worry about their dads, then worry about their moms who are losing it mentally or going out and cheating. Either way the children get the brunt of it.
2006-12-09 17:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much depends on the sex drive of the woman. Love doesn't have a darn thing to do with it most of the time. Anyway, adultery means voluntary sexual intercourse of a married person with a person other than the offender's husband or wife. Adultery is a great cause for divorce! The innocent spouse usually gets the whole bag of marbles. In your case, it's also a very, very immoral activity because your spouse is risking his/her life for your freedom to do what you wish. Ask yourself, "Is it worth it?"
HANK (Josh)
2006-12-08 15:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Josh Logan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MISS CJ,? MISS CJ! MISS CJ.
The reason men go to war in the United States is Freedom.
It was men who fought and gave their lives so you dear young lady, could sit in front of your computer and talk the crap you just slung.
Sorry. It upset me. Freedom it not handed out to everyone. just look at the other countries that don't have any.
The united states fought for our freedom, other wise you would be under German, or Japanese rule or some other rule.
And, if the USA don't get a handle on that war we might be under the Muslim's rule.
Then you would have to go by a Burka and cover your face, and pay homage to the men like you wouldn't believe because YOU WON'T BE FREE NO MORE !!!!
Our freedom is being eroded away enough by the liberals in our government without having a bunch of no account American citizen's talking our freedom down.
2006-12-08 18:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by smially 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's not about involvement in the military. It's human nature to want to feel close to somebody. Pretty effed up though, considering one is servicing a whole country while the other services the mailman.
2006-12-08 19:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call it another calamity of war.
How faithful are these soldiers being while at said war? Considering the amount of illegitimate, mixed race children left behind on these war fronts, I'd say the balance of fidelity is at least equal.
As a woman, I would never marry a military man. The idea of someone brain washed into fighting for political aburdities is just too repellent.
I'm sorry if I offend you veterans out there. I'm sure your intentions were good and I give you credit for the courage it takes to go into something like this, misguided as I think it is, but it's simply not something I'm willing to live with.
2006-12-08 15:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 3 · 5⤊ 5⤋
I am sure you will get answers along the lines of she resented you for leaving and found someone who wanted to be with her, or felt you put the country ahead of her marriage, but in honesty, she felt betrayed that you put something or someone before her and looked elsewhere.
2006-12-08 15:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...sounds like you've been cheated on...or know someone that's been cheated on. Maybe you should ask her. You'd be surprised what you can find out...
2006-12-08 17:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by ~Fabulous~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
people cheat...it is a weakness of the species...there is no one reason. individuals have choices and some make that choice and some dont
2006-12-08 15:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by susuze2000 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know let me ask one I know and depending on the answer I'll get back to you
2006-12-09 01:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋