i broke up with this chic a year ago. We dont talk anymore. She just want doing it for me. I saw her at a bar last night with her man playing poker (which i got her into) anyways she ignored me and i walked up and said hi and she said hey thats all. Do you people cut all contact and try to avoid eachother? Is it strange not to talk to her more than just saying hi? Felt weird not to say much more than hi
2006-12-08 07:05:49 · 15 answers · asked by aligrespeq 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Also spotted her in another bar sat night but she ignored me. I tried to do the friends thing but she was in love and kept trying to keep me. so the thing i did was just cut all ties.
2006-12-08 07:07:16 · update #1
im not asking for yoru advice im asking what you people do when u see your ex's around town
trust me i dumped her i was over her 1 1/2 years ago
2006-12-08 07:13:19 · update #2
annie you got what i would like
talk as adults maybe she can intorduce me to her man and we could all bull s hit like adults. I have no animosity towards her and she doesnt have any towards me. it was jst weird
2006-12-08 07:14:46 · update #3
Since she was with another man, saying "hi" was enough. If you ran into her in a store and you were both alone, then you might ask her how she is doing, etc. But she might not want to talk to you, since you said you broke up with her, and I don't blame her. Why should she waste her time talking to someone who didn't want her any more? As for what I do when I meet my "ex", it depends on the circumstances. We shared 20 years and two children, so we usually talk about our children (now adults) in a friendly way. Then we go our separate ways.
2006-12-08 07:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it awkward. If you end up being within 20 feet of each other just be polite and say hello. There's no need to say much more than that really. It depends on how long you were together for. If you with her over a year you should maybe as how she is and make very brief conversation. If it's obvious she doesn't want to talk though just say hi and leave it at that.
2006-12-08 07:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by euphoricrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
precise, you reported she wasn't' doing it for you; it really is what you needed. imagine of about it: she's doing the bare minimum and being nicely mannered. Why may favor to she be sure for to communicate to you extra? you chop decrease back all ties. Do both yourselves a want; once you word her next, only keep going. If I, on different hand, said my ex round city (now no longer probable once you concentration on that i have were given moved to a particular state), i'd run as a lot as him and introduce him to my husband. i'd grant him a "you in worry-free words opt for you need to be this satisfied" look. He replaced precise right into a selfish a** hollow.
2016-11-24 23:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by estremera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her. If she says anything to u just reply with no more than 1 word. Ignore her if u see her and she doesnt see u. Try not to even make eye contact.
2006-12-08 07:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lil D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, if YOU broke it off, then she probably has nothing to say to you, even more so now that she is with another guy. I would just keep things at a hello and if she does not respond to that then leave her alone.
the thing about relationships is that if you are with someone and you break up, being friends is really not an option(unless you are on Seinfeld).
2006-12-08 07:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by MOHGAMER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you want us to tell you? It is simple that she wants to move on with her life and she already has someone. You should not go out of your way to avoid her but act natural and get over it in the most matter of fact way. There are plenty of fish in the ocean.
2006-12-08 07:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you expect from here? Did you make an effert to talk to her previously since you had broken up? I doubt it, so why should she make the effert in talking to you? A simple hi, is just fine and she could have been busy so oh well!
2006-12-08 07:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by candy803 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to keep the ties cut!
2006-12-08 07:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go. say hi and keep it at that. she was probably a little big uncomfortable knowing that you and her current guy were in the same room. she has obviously moved on and you need to do the same. you may be willing to talk to her but judging by her reaction, she just wants to move on.
2006-12-08 07:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by Brian O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you still care for her. Maybe you see what you lost. I f I saw my ex in town I would definately talk to him. But I admitt I miss him. He broke up with me. I would still be nice and mature I would not ignore him.
2006-12-08 07:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by pookiepoo11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋