thanks guys for everything. well he said he got them before he met me he just broke out with them. then he said the womens shoes are from a girlfriend of mine. i ask and everyone said its not theirs. then the phone he said the cats knocked the ringer off. he said i am insecure and have a trust problem. i stay cause of that really it will be tuff on my own but what if the doctors tell me he gave them to me should i just stay with him anyways cause i amy akready have them. shoudl i trust him i dont know...,
2006-12-08 07:04:42 · 15 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK, I don't know exactly what you are talking about because I wasn't a member for Part 1, but if the man gave you a VD, I say "KICK HIS A** TO THE CURB!!!!!!" No man is worth your health.
Seems that there has been evidence of suspicious behavior from him, so why would you put yourself through wondering and worrying?? NO relationship is worth doubting yourself and your instincts. Girl, do what you gotta do, and make yourself happy.
I wish you the best of luck and I will be looking for updates!!
2006-12-08 07:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by tribalelaine3277 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
again.
get rid of him.
he is lying about the shoes.
as for the warts they take between 1month to 3 years to appear (according 2 a website) so he is lying again.
i have a cat and i doubt very much that he could knock the ringer off my phone.
you will get money from the divorce.
you dont trust him already as you are on here asking about this.
2006-12-08 07:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly I stay at residing house. nonetheless I do run a dayhome and generate an earnings and pay charges. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that, I prepare dinner, sparkling, laundry, and so on. He does the backyard artwork, he enjoys it. i do no longer think of he fairly 'expects' it out of me nonetheless, as i'm contributing and those teenagers come first over the residing house - Im being paid to observe/tutor them - no longer sparkling my residing house. yet I anticipate it out of myself because of the fact i'm able to do it, and could somewhat have it executed as commonly as achievable so we've time to spend mutually doing something yet house accepted jobs and cooking. nonetheless as quickly as we've teenagers i'm going to be a SAHM finished time (nonetheless i'm going to nonetheless have an earnings for a on a similar time as) and then i think of expectancies will shift as he would be paying greater charges than he's now and helping a baby - yet i'm already practised so thats stable - i will basically purely save getting greater efficient! i think of socially there is fairly of a stigma against residing house dads. i do no longer think of their could be. yet traditionally men have been meant to be the vendors and a womans place became into with the toddlers. So some people see housedads as lazy deadbeats, making their women people artwork and do their jobs. I have not got any subject with housedads, and that i admire the belief. i think of it relatively is super that some men are taking greater of an pastime of their toddlers and properties, and permitting their better halves to pursue careers, in the event that they are occupation minded. Dads are stable parents too. and girls people are stable workers. i do no longer see a topic.
2016-10-05 01:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make up your mind for you but please, please do not get pregnant with him. Atleast you are only choosing for yourself now but do not bring a child into this situation until and IF you are able to trust him. Once you have a child with him you will have far fewer options.
Finish school; get your degree and get a job. Be able to stand on your own whether you stay with him or not. Then you can choose what you really want without being afraid of being destitute.
For goodness sake start practicing safe sex.
2006-12-08 07:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't trust him. What if he brought home a more serious STD ...like HIV/ AIDS? You need to protect yourself. Genital warts are dangerous. They can cause cervical cancer down the road. Worry about your health and safety first. I would finish school and then leave him. Trust me, you can live on your own and you will be alright. Hope you do what is best for you. Good luck!
2006-12-08 07:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself only you know the answer we can only give advise.
Look in the mirror, are you only worth 120grand? Get divorced you can site him for adultery and take him to the cleaners and get yourself respect back. Love yourself you deserve better.
AND NEVER STAY WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE IN COMMON IS A SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE.
2006-12-08 07:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably should get out before you catch them. Try your best to verify truth or lies. If he is lieing, he will only lie more.
You already know what you should do, probably should go with your gut feelings. Good Luck
2006-12-08 07:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and move on, you really don't need to put up with all his crap...........off course it will be hard out there on your own, but hey be strong and just go for it, and i am sure all will be fine. good luck and god bless.
2006-12-08 17:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean its hard to leave some one you love i always say expect the worst becaause if you expect the worst then anything else is good news
2006-12-08 07:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by big b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no and no he sounds like a slime ball. Get a sti check yourself get a divorce settlement (a good one) and hold your head up.
2006-12-08 07:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋