I know she wants to do this. We have talked, but she feels that it would be too "naughty". Please help me.
2006-12-08 06:46:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't let those people judge you!!! My question is whether or not you mean in front of everyone or do you want to hook up with one person to take home......
If you are ok with it and she is too, you are both are consenting adults, so have fun with it--maybe what she could do is while you guys are at the party she could wear something semi-low cut (not slutty) and when she is talking to men, she could bend a bit in such a way or something to show more cleavage. Also, she could let a kiss linger a bit too long or brush her **** up against someone while looking them in the eye. She could be sitting and show some thigh and put her hand on the guy's thigh and such......very discreet things. What a turn on! If anything you two will have a blast once you get home b/c you'll be so turned on.
2006-12-08 06:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want other guys to get intimate with your wife? Sounds as though you are a sex fiend. If your wife is even half willing I would categorize you both as swingers wanting to have sex with anyone anywhere. You need help but not in the way you think. What if the shoe were on the other foot and she wanted other girls to touch you intimately? If this appeals to you then why are you married? Why is she married if she even considers such a thing? Maybe you are looking for some excitement in your marriage because there is none. If that is the case, then you and she are made for each other especially if she goes along with it. Making her do something she doesn't want to do is wrong and if she has any morality she will not even consider it nor will she allow you or anyone else to talk her into it. If I were her and you asked me to do this I would divorce you in a New York minute.
2006-12-08 14:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a woman in a swinging marriage, I would just tell her that it turns you on to see her being touched by other men. Leave the rest to her. If she want to do this than she now knows that she can but she may not want to so I wouldn't push the issue.
2006-12-08 14:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NICE!!
Well first of all... alcohol is a must. For her and them both. I would find a guy who you know would do it and go into an empty room with him and your wife. Just explain to him the situation and see what happens!!
Honestly... I really wanna know how this turns out!!!
When is this party? I want to know what happens!!!
2006-12-08 15:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by jer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could not think anything of your wife or yourself if you need others to touch her to turn you on. You should honor and respect your wife. Or did you forget your wedding vows. Your questions shows you have no honor or respect toward your wife how sad for you and her. Grow up and be a loving husband to your wife. Not a sick kid, who needs to get his kicks at your wife's expense.
2006-12-08 14:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? That is your wife, the person you took vows with...she should be untouchable to other men in your eyes. I don't think you really love her if you want to degrade her in such a way. She is supose to be your godess, your best friend. Did you farther do this to your mother? oche! that hurts huh? That is someones little girl you want to rent out buddy!! Get help!!!
2006-12-08 14:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Army Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your twisted dude.........but if you want guys to mess with her, have her wear white pants without panties. So they can see through them or a mini skirt. He top has to be very low cut with nipples showing through. She will do the rest.
This is really wild. Let me know what happens, seriously.
2006-12-08 15:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to destroy your marrage this is a good way to do it ,, 9 out of 10 times she will hook up with a guy she wants to stay with then your home playing with you little dinky all by yourself
2006-12-08 15:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Navy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, make a list of divorce lawyers in advance, sounds like you may need one soon. Your discusting!!
2006-12-08 15:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her wear a mini skirt with no panties or bra. Make sure she flashes some of the guys.
2006-12-08 15:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋