Why is it so much easier to give advice to people in relationships then it is manage your own?
2006-12-08 06:25:51 · 16 answers · asked by Right_Stuff66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2016-05-06 04:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the saying "Hind sight is 20/20. Well that goes true for relationship too. If you think about it in general, anytime you've gone through something in life while you are in the situation you can't seem to find a way through or out of it. But once it's past and you and your thoughts are left alone to each other you will see that you really could have gone about that whole situation in a different manner. That's why I feel is easier to give someone else advice rather than managing your own.
I live my this philosophy. If I've gone through something there is no sense in me letting someone else fall If I see the road there on is one I've been on." Just a thought.
2006-12-08 06:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by J P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to deal with their own problems the way they would tell a stranger how to. Advice is always great, it just depends on if you want to listen or not. It is easier for someone else to decide what someone else should do.
2006-12-08 06:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always easier to be objective about things from the outside when you have no personal stake in it. It's easy to make hard decisions when you aren't going to have to follow through.
Telling someone to file for divorce is a whole lot easier than divorcing someone.
2006-12-08 06:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that is a DAMN GOOOOD question!! Maybe because deep down inside the advice we give other people we wish we had the courage to follow. Maybe if we give out the same good advice to other people eventually we'll follow it
2006-12-08 06:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_journey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is easier to help others than to admit you have a relationship problem.
2006-12-08 06:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are on the outside looking in without the emotional attatchment you have when you are the one IN the relationship. It is always easier to tell someone to do something than it is to actually do it yourself.
2006-12-08 06:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's easier said than done.
A lot of people can't follow their own advice. They tend to not have a lot of self-confidence.
2006-12-08 06:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not hard to manage your own just set rule and guide line up and follow though with them. dating and relationship you have to have guide line but if you fall in love that a other story then you have to go bye your gut feeling good luck
2006-12-08 06:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u like to tell people what to do. i just ask questions on here and it helps me manage my relationship just fine so good luck with managing yours
2006-12-08 06:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋