2006-12-08 06:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by nino a. 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Stop thinking about you and start thinking about other people. Concentrate on making people feel good, appreciated, important, and you will get the same in return. But you have to stop thinking about your needs. Forget about yourself, give all you attention on the people you want to talk to. Give complemtents, give people respect and people will give it back 2 fold! It works for me. Good luck.
oh, and remember....SMILE
2006-12-08 06:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by sfumato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to everyone. Strike up conversations. Smile. Show concern if something is wrong. Join a club. Go to church. Volunteer. Do favors. There are lots of ways to be social. Some people just work better on their own or in small groups and that's o.k.
2006-12-08 14:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sociable and you want to be than you have to do the research. Find out who you want to socialize with, then find out what that person's interest is. Keep you ear open in the background. If they're a positive person that you would like to hang out with then start taking some interest 1st and then start taking some initiative. As the cliche goes "One foot in front of the other."
2006-12-08 14:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have 2 or three stock questions ready to ask people, usually people love to talk about themselves, after some exploration, you can usually find something else you have in common that you can talk about at length.
"what kind of work do you do?"
if you are in a large city you can always ask "where are you from?" (this doesn't work as well in samller cities and towns.
if you are at a prty thrown by host "How do you know so and so...?"
2006-12-08 14:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by cadillacrazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with people you work with when they go out in a group.
Talk at lunch to people and listen to what they have to say.
2006-12-08 14:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find a person u like and if thier talking 2 somone just dive in i do it all the time don't b nervous.
2006-12-08 14:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know and accept yourself. Believe in yourself and do not fear rejection. Build self esteem.
http://www.public-speaking-solutions.com/fear-of-rejection.html
2006-12-08 14:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
host a BIG HUGE party and invite people that are in your neighborehood, or just any body you know! it just might work.
2006-12-08 14:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lexi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become bi sexual and let your self go.
2006-12-08 14:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by JUSTIN H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋