2006-12-08 05:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by oriflame 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grieve as you do at the loss of any other thing of importance. The end of a long term relationship is much like a death of someone close and we need to grieve this loss. But like everything else in life time will heal the loss and soon enough things will be back to normal for you.
2006-12-08 05:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend left me after four years, but he left me without telling me. So Ive been there. Its going to be hard for the first couple of months. I'm not going to tell you to go out with your friends. Because that didn't work for me. But i will tell you go out with your Friends once or twice a week at least. Go out and do the things that you wanted. Go out and do the things that you always wanted to try even if it means alone. Do the things that your ex didn't want to do with you. And just know that your not the first person that this has happen to but at least you know that there has been many more people that have gone through this. And there will be other men that come in your life and go, and don't think about what did I do wrong, and "whats if". Just take time for your self
2006-12-08 14:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun...a really great bottle of wine and a very good cry. Then the next day, awake with a smile and tell yourself that it's time to move on. (Very difficult...I know)
Find comfort in your friends, make some new ones and throw yourself into your work or school. I joined new groups...cooking, travel, wine tasting....there is so much that can take your mind off of him. 4 years was a longtime that cannot be erased over night. Eventually it will get easier and you'll think of him less and less.
Take care of your self!
2006-12-08 13:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Smiling Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is extremely hard and sad. Everything reminds you of him. Try to find a support group it will help a lot. All I can say is that time heals but it doesn't happen overnight. Believe me I am sorry for you as I have been there.....more than once. But now I am happily married to a guy more wonderful that I ever could imagine.
2006-12-08 14:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hobbies! Try to remember what you used to do before you had the boyfriend. Catch up with friends, travel, find happiness within yourself. They say it takes twice the length of the relationship to get over the relationship... don't despair if you aren't over him right away. Work through your feelings and find outlets that can bring you joy. Good luck my friend.
2006-12-08 13:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to yourself to heal emotionally and go and hang out with friends and family and find some hobbies...
2006-12-08 15:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a Better looking guy. Then Make The sertin ( "him" ) Jelous!
2006-12-08 13:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by I can totally help u! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with your friends and have fun. Make sure to have a DD and be responsible.
2006-12-08 13:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that your mind is like a Lease... don't allow him to 'rent space'. Move on, because you know he will, if he hasn't already.
2006-12-08 13:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by tribalelaine3277 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is it you need to know? i suggest talking to child support agency in your area if you have a child together. there is counseling available, many other things. your question is too vague.
2006-12-08 13:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋