ok im a 16 ur old girl and im pregnant will im not some type of cheap B**** im actully had my babe wif carmine gotti ( his dad was in the mafia") so my family is rich my moms a nurse my dads a doctor herat surgery doctor anywayz not the point what to i excpet from the baby i mean wut will i go through ?:S
2006-12-08
05:48:21
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Betty M
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ok plz pepole it waz my f******in first time so i just whant sum help and dont call me a slut bag thx ( Momz out there i need help) wut will a go through
2006-12-08
05:51:27 ·
update #1
and plus im not puttin my babie out for a adoption plz pepole i messed around got in a alot of mess i just nedd help plz:(
2006-12-08
05:54:33 ·
update #2
ok well i hope everyone out there who just answered my qustion is happy. im worried i think i know how 2 spell and also i really dont care about how im spelling right now becuse i have other stuff on my mind right know like im PREGNANT
2006-12-08
05:59:32 ·
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if u think im leaving my tennage life im not my parents r whacting te baby ok i dont wanna sound like a S**** but i do have an eduction im studying to be a Nurse i know somethings about benning pregnant but i need to know more thx
2006-12-08
06:03:58 ·
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I have no ******* clue of what you've just said.
2006-12-08 05:50:10
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answered by ★Fetal☆ ★And ☆ ★Weeping☆ 7
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Well it seems like you've been ripped on enough, so I won't add to that. Although, I don't really see why you felt the need to talk about how rich your family is or the fact that the baby's father is in the mafia. Who cares????
On another note, having a baby will change EVERYTHING! I had an unexpected pregnancy when I was 21, got married before the baby was even born at 22, and I STILL think I was too young and did everything in the wrong order. You have so much living and growing up to do and so much to experience. I don't believe in abortion, and I don't necessarilly think you should carelessly have sex and then use adoption as a form of birth control. BUT, in this case, judging by the way you come across in your message you are far too immature to be a mom and this child will probably be better off being raised by two parents who are ready and who WANT to be parents. A child is a blessing and I would never, EVER change the fact that I am a mom. But it is a lot of work. You lose all your independence, you have very little time for yourself, you go through a period where you hardly get any sleep, children are VERY expensive to raise and require a lot of attention and about 90% of your time. You will probably lose all your friends....or most of them. Just think very rationally and think the whole situation through before you jump to make ANY decision.
My cousin gave her child up for adoption at age 18 and that was an emotional trauma that she is still dealing with today five years later. So any decision you make, it will be difficult and you need to make sure you've really thought it through because it's a decison you'll have to live with forever...
2006-12-08 06:05:14
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to do some research. Who cares what you have or don't have, so what your parents are rich, what's that make you? A young mother who doesn't know the first thing about having a child and sure doesn't talk like anyone I know raised by a wealthy family, and is gonna bum off her parents to take care of her child, that's not much to brag about if you ask me! There's a difference between appreciating the support around you and taking advantage of it and you I can tell takes advantage of....as so will your baby, just another generation lost is all I can say!
Learn how to talk and treat people before you have that child and please do some research on raising children. Also don't let your parents raise that baby, which is what you're probably going to do whether you know it or not.
2006-12-08 05:56:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Every pregnancy is different from the next, but her are some common pregnancy symptoms.
1. Mourning sickness (some times it can be all day sickness)
2. Increase in Weight (could be 5 pounds, could be 105 pounds)
3. Swollen feet or hands ( tends to occur after the first trimester
4. Fatigue ( can be mild or drastic )
5. Depression ( not all woman experience this)
6. Appetite change ( weather an increase or a decrease )
2006-12-08 05:54:53
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answered by novelwyrm 3
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first of i dont want to be rude but you shouldnt be having a baby not because of your age but because of your attitude, and as far as your parents being rich, yea sure you do need money to raise a child but you also need maturity and other qualities that you dont have yet. The fact that you are saying that you plan on letting your parents raise your child is terrible. I'm not fond of giving your kids for adoption and i hate abortions but unless you can get your act together in 9 months or i suppose in your case less than that , then i suppose you get a plan fast
look I'M 17 and I'm pregnant but i plan on raising my child and surpporting it, and i have a job, and even though it was irresponsible to get pregnant in the first place I'm taking full responsiblity, so do the same and get your act together
2006-12-08 06:58:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Well...all that $$$ and not enough for an education....Last time I knew being involved with the mafia or with someone who is....is not really a thing to brag about...Anywho.....I got pregnant at 15 and had my son at 16...just one of those...wasn't supposed to happen things....but obviously it does...I can tell you that most likely all your parents will say is "we love you, but we are disappointed"...You say you're not a cheap ***** or a slut or whatever....you are really coming off as one....braggin that you're having a mafia baby....I guess your baby will be growing up Gotti huh....?
2006-12-08 06:06:56
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are going to keep acting like that and typing like that you can expect a lot of ridicule,.
But as far as the pregnancy goes you never know. Buy the book what to expect when you're expecting. It's really hard having a baby so young. I was 16 when I got pregnant with my son, too. But, you do what you have to and things work out.
2006-12-08 05:52:32
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answered by Aloe-ish-us 4
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My first advice is learn how to spell & use periods in your sentences. My next advice is to not have sex until you are SMART enough to raise a child. You are lying about the mafia thing obviously & lying isn't going to be good for your child. Expect to give up everything, most friends, all of your free time, every bit of selfishness you have for your baby. If your dad is a "herat" surgeon, you should be fine w/money, unless of course he puts you out.
2006-12-08 05:52:18
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answered by IMHO 6
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first off
if u kno someone's in the mafia or related to the mafia in some way---stay away
secondly--pregnancy is not a game...and from the way u talk in ur question, i think u should jus give up the baby for adoption--ur not mature enough to take care of it
and next time, use protection and be at least 18 (which by then u'll hopefully be more mature)
2006-12-08 05:53:51
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answered by kaeh 4
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First of all....you're an idiot. Why would you get on here and tell us that you are having a baby with Carmine Gotti? Even if that were true, which I highly doubt, why would anyone here care?
Second....if you are so well off....please ask your parents to get you into a special school for IDIOTS who can't spell.
Third...you ask "What will I go through?" I'm a little more concerned about what this baby will go through having an idiot like you for a mother.
Oh and by the way...I should mention, YOU'RE AN IDIOT!
AND WHY WOULD ANY OF YOU HAVE SERIOUSLY ANSWERED HER QUESTION? ARE YOU SERIOUS? SHE'S NUTS!
And here is one of her questions from a few days ago when she was 12!
ok im in grade 6 and im in luv with this guy named tim we dont talk 2 each other much but he likes this gurl in grade 7 sabrina and im in grade 6 tim ispopular guy im popular 2 but he dosnt talk 2 me now im best friends wif one of his best friends also tim best friend eric and me r close wright and i might be going on 2 eric but eric already has a gurl know i need help i really whant tim but ( eric is kinda pushin in ) i need to talk 2 tim about like how i like him and stuff but i need sum ways of how i can tell him scienece we hardly talk (
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2 days ago
dont tell me im younge im in grade 7 and im 12 years old we all act like teenagers but i really whant tim
2 days ago
me and ti know each other but i need to know how i can u know tell him i like him :?
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*** on i need help plz:) anything help me plz:)
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2006-12-08 06:29:34
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answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4
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Maybe your parents should put you behind in class so you can learn how to spell. And I am pretty sure that Carmine Gotti is not your babies dad because he's my baby daddy(J/K) LOL. Get a life.
2006-12-08 06:22:15
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answered by $$$$$$ 2
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