2006-12-08 05:47:23 · 14 answers · asked by Nene 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
"Mom, I'm pregnant. Isn't that wonderful!"
She's got to know that you're happy with it, otherwise she won't be. And then the stuff you fear will come from her. If she sees your happiness, then she'll help you in anyway she can.
Hopefully you're happy about it. Assuming that you haven't decided to have an abortion, I presume you want the child. It won't be easy, but love the child and things will be all right.
2006-12-08 05:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth I think you're in a much better position then a 15 yr. old girl who's pregnant and the boyfriend ran off on her and doesnt know how to tell her parents.
You're a college student! With that in mind I think you're a responsible adult who doesnt need to hide. I believe you should tell your mom flat out what's going on. If you plan to have the baby, then you'll eventually need to tell your family. They'll notice. If you dont want the baby, I still believe you should inform your family and then do what you think is right.
I am 19 yr. old college student and I think I may be pregnant from my ex boyfriend. I am scared and nervous to find out if I'm really pregnant and then telling my family. I understand what you're going through. I guess it's best to come out clean. Either way the truth always comes out.
2006-12-08 05:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Elo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in a serious relationship that she knows about? Does she know you guys are intimate?
Unfortuately, since you are asking, you will probably say no to at least one of these questions....
I would just sit down with her, and say, 'This wasn't planned but here is what is going on. I know you may be disappointed, and I am sorry, but I am doing my best to make the best of this situation, and to do the right thing' Tell her what you have figured out about what you plan to be doing, and ask her if there is anything else that she thinks that you should do.... If she is more involved in it, maybe that will help. She may feel hurt for a while, but once she sees what you are doing to prepare for the new arrival, I am sure that she will gladly help and be happy to be involved....
Good luck and I hope all is well for you and your little one.....
2006-12-08 05:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by TNT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to tell her; she's going to find out. The "how" is up to you. You know her better than any of us. I would suggest that it is an appropriate setting, though; just the two of you at dinner or something. The sooner the better would be best for you. The more you hang on to this without telling her, the more anxious you'll be about it and the harder it will get.
2006-12-08 06:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Angela J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you go about it really depends on your relationship with her and what her views are. The best way is to be honest with her, and just know what your decision is going to be regaurding the baby, if she sees that you have thought about the situation and are ready to approach it maturely you, she might not freak out as much. Just try and stay as calm as possible and talk quietly, the more you become hysterical the more she will
2006-12-08 05:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by wakawacki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to tell her but have a counselor tell her or write it under your mom's door, but don't put it for abortion and don't quit college because someone in the world wants a child and they can't get one
2006-12-08 05:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by kofi o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say mom we need to talk, I don't want you to get mad or upset, tell her your going to finish school no matter what and you will get a job to support the baby. Just be mature about it she wil have more respect about the situation if you speak to her as adult to adult.
2006-12-08 05:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a supportive mom, surprise her with a gift of a t-shirt that says "worlds best Grandma".
If not.... thats up to you hun, only you know your mom like that.
Good luck either way!
2006-12-08 05:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Soon2BMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, Mom, Im pregnant.
2006-12-08 05:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I told my mom by saying, "I have to talk to you." I then said, "I'm --- months pregnant."
She may react better then you think.
2006-12-08 05:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋