2006-12-08 05:25:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
of course i would still love him or her but i would want to talk to him/her about it and mayber get some sort of therapy just because im christian and i dont feel its right but if he/she doesnt want to then i will let him/her do what they feel is right in their hearts.
2006-12-08 05:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
Ask them how they felt about it. If they felt bad about it. If they felt like they needed to change, I'd pray for them. The last thing a gay child needs is a disowning parent. That's why I didn't come out until about a month ago, and still only my parents know.
2006-12-09 01:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing but what I've always done. Love my child, unconditionally, be supportive and encourage my child to be happy and healthy.
Isn't that what any GOOD parent would do?
2006-12-08 07:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gay and I have a 19 year old daughter. If she were gay Iwould have no problem with it at all. She would still be Alex...but I would miss her boyfriend because he is a nice guy!
2006-12-08 05:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be supportive, I love my children no matter what. Privately, I would grieve for them knowing what a hard life they were going to be living because of the way society will treat them.
2006-12-08 05:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by momofmodi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would find a quiet place to sit down and discuss the issue with them. Ask their thoughts and opinions. I would hug them, tell them that they are no different to me than they day they were born and that I will always love and support them.
2006-12-08 05:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about sex and sexuality, about hormones and being true, about Jesus' words on love and commitment. What difference would it make if they're gay or straight? When they reach their teenage years, I'm gonna need a double dose of the migraine pills.
2006-12-08 05:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be glad that he wouldn't be getting any girls pregnant anytime soon :P
But in all seriousness i would be glad that he was brave enough to discover that about himself. Its not popular and is often condemmed. I would love him just as I do now. I would help him find resources, support and information and let him know that if there is someone special in his life and would love to welcome him into our family.
2006-12-08 05:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Just Jess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I saw the best answer to this yesterday: `This changes nothing.`
They're still your child and you should love them and respect that they had the bottle to tell you something they've been hiding.
2006-12-08 05:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive in any way possible:remember it is your child.He or she can't help how she or he is.
He or she did not ask to be gay,far from it.
It involves a lot of trouble,so be there for your kids.
Please help them in any way you can.
Greetings:Rob.xxxx
2006-12-08 05:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what can you do just keep loving them and being there for them shouldn't matter if they are gay or not
2006-12-08 05:31:25 · answer #11 · answered by robert s 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋