i always wanted to fight these people, who try to destroy the others. i've been bullied several times and it feels so wrong. what do you think about this serious issue?
2006-12-08 05:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
bulling can have dire consequences on the victim depending how often and the severity of it. The "classic" way to approach it is to get someone else to intervene (such as a teacher or someone of authority). But this usually is only a stopgap measure, if you want it to stop permanently is to either push back much harder, get them to focus on something else, or avoidance long enough for them to forget about you.
2006-12-08 05:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 23:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I very young, I was bullied and out-numbered. Then I resisted, then I fought back, I learned to adapt and overcome the numbers. Then when I was young, I defended the weak and oppressed. I became a bully. A bully to those who bullied. I never looked back.
2006-12-08 06:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'd probably get off on fighting. I know this sounds bad, but what you have to do is give them a taste of their own medicine. It might be that they are insecure... but it could also be their form of entertainment. I used to hate this one girl. Then it dawned on me that she's just a bully. And I started standing up to her. I finally understood her, and she finally felt that I grew a backbone, and now, we're actually good friends. When she bullies others, I just tell them how to handle her, and they end up liking her or thinking she's funny.
2006-12-08 05:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same feelings as you years ago but now that i have grown up and matured and know what life is all about.....my best answer to this would be to imagine how pathetic their life must be when they are not around you "bullying" others.....imagine what they see in the mirror every morning and how bad that makes them feel....and just think you didnt have to do anything to them for them to feel this bad....it is sad and innocent people have to deal with them and the consequences but in the long run whos really got it worse here?
2006-12-08 05:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by cookiesmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone one does it at some point and everyone has had it done in return. It is part of life. But I do disagree with that video game Bully. I mean come on no need to encourage kids to be little *******.
2006-12-08 05:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bullies will get what is coming to them later on in life. Fighting them will only make matters worse.
2006-12-08 05:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by May 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should get a couple of friends of your own and work your way up the social ladder and bully them back! Not responding to them just want to make them bully you more.
2006-12-08 05:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always used to fight back...it was painful at times, til I got serious in the gym and got even.
2006-12-08 05:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I to think it needs to be stopped but you never know why they bully in the first place maybe there taking out anger on something that happend to them, yeah I know its not the right way to figure things out, but maybe they just really need help. ask them.
2006-12-08 05:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋