i have been bisexual for about four years n noone knows except my ex-girlfriends n two friends. who do i come out of my shell. ive asked one of my friends wat would she think if i told her that i was bysexual n she just laughed n said ur too pretty n noone would believe that
2006-12-08 05:13:05 · 14 answers · asked by christina 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I feel that only you can know when the time is right for you. It was so hard for me coming out because I knew that my family was totally against it, but I had to be me....I didnt do the standard big meeting with the family...I jus let things slowly start to come out...starting with my friends......
but you have to be true to yourself and know that when you do come out...that things might not be all sunshine and lollipops...you might loose friends and maybe even family....but you have to be strong in who you are and what you want to do...because at the end of the day you have to sleep with yourself and the choices you made....
but family will eventually come around....they might not love your sexual orientation but bottom line is that they still love you....
2006-12-08 07:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that for you Americans,coming out is such a big deal.
Where I live ,no one gives a **** what lifestyle you choose:it is only up to yourself.
We are supported by the same laws that go for straight people and enjoy the same rights.We don't care about those bible fanatics either.
Are they not also God's children en we are not?
It is even too ridiculous for words.
Girl ,if you want to come out,do it,but then face the people that are against it.If you are not up to that,stay where you are.
You don't have to put an add in the paper to have sex with a girl,do you?
Just do as you please.
Good luck and success:Rob.
2006-12-08 05:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to accept who you are, which you seem to have done based on the fact that you have had relationships with both sexes.
The next step would be to tell someone close to you. The most important thing to note is that it's not a big deal and it won't change who you are. Your friends should accept you for who you are and they will once you give them time to understand this. It *is* an important feature of yourself after all.
I wish you luck in love, where ever you may find it!
2006-12-08 05:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am 15 and when i came out last year, it was the hardest thing to do because my whole family said it was against the bible and that i was going to hell just because i am bi... i dont believe that, but when the time is right then come out, dont rush it, u might be forcing it a lil to soon, but then again u might not, but ur true friends will stick with u, no matter what u do, u r still urself but u just like the samew sex 2!!! well good luck when ever u can out but 4 me i regret ever coming out..........
2006-12-08 05:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Amber B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you _are_ bisexual, you should let people know it and lift the weight off your chest.
JesusLovesYou: Why? She's already a lesbian, not coming out isn't going to change anything, except perhaps make you feel better that one less person is publically admitting who they are. Bigot.
2006-12-08 05:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG...People can be soo mean. Well I know exactly where you stand on this. And when you are ready. I think once you tell your parents, and your family, you can just be like. . . "I'm coming out. . oh yea, I want the world to know, got to let it show. . . ." ya know the song. **** what everyone else thinks, its your life, and if they are truly your friends then they will understand. No one has to agree with your choice, but to understand that the choice is yours to make!! .....Dang I need to talk my own advice!
2006-12-08 06:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will feel better when you do but then you will face a whole new set of challenges. you need to talk with a friend that will except you for who you are to be ready to handle the things people will throw at you
2006-12-08 05:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research proves that over 70% of adult women are bi-sexual to one degree or another. The closet was probably just too crowded for you.
2006-12-08 05:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out anyway, we would believe you! And after a while, everybody will.
The air is fresher outside the closet.
2006-12-08 05:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOUR FAMILY SHOULD KNOW FIRST ONCE THEY KNOW EVERYONE ELSE WILL SOON FIND OUT AND AS LONG AS THE PARENTS KNOW FIRST ITS NOT HURTING ANY FEELINGS.
2006-12-08 05:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by SASSY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋