i can only get hards on from girls and when i masturbate its alwasy to women adn I try to test myself to guys but idk i dont feel a emotion of arousal I get from the girls even thoguh I know the guys are attractive. I finish off to girls and if i stop and breathe and calm down and startup again girls pop up in my head. Today i had an image of a girl giving head to a guy i nthe back of my head whiel I had a main image of another girl in the front of my head. I still dont get my sexuality and how it can change everyday from being straight and feeling releif to not beign sure even though all these other signs dont really stress homosexuality. You think the image of the girl and guy say im gay. I cant do anything when im not sure if im straight and i get depressed. like usually I cant see myself with a guy like having intercourse but then otehr days i just cant tell. ALso, if i calm down and breathe calmly i soon to realize that I wouldnt do stuff with a guy.
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2006-12-08 05:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by max b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
So ppl what do u think about all of this? is it high hormone levels b/c I read that around that yo ucan change from likeing guys one minute to girls the next and realize that it was just a phase. I feel that wat is that happens to me b/c I change all the time. I really need to knwo soon the defined answer to my sexuality. LIke i dont get it, how can your opinion change so much within afew months or weeks. I kind of had questiosn on this when I was like 14 but they went away on their own and I fell in love with a few girls but now this year Idk what I need? please tell me this is a normal phase that my opinion changes sooo much b/c the physc has confirmed from what I feel and from what I tell him that I am not gay. I lived the hetero life forever and enjoyed it and now my doubts are destroying me phsyically and mentally adn I want this whole change to be over!
2006-12-08 05:11:21 · update #1
It's raging hormones. If you wouldn't do anything sexually with a guy, you aren't gay. Most straight guys can find other guys attractive (though many won't admit to it). I can find women attractive but there's no way i'd do anything sexual with them.
It will pass in time, just let it flow it's course and don't worry, it's natural.
2006-12-08 05:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you. There are a lot of guys who have had a homosexual experience or desire at some point in their lives. Dr Alfred Kinsey reckoned that 38% of males reported a same sex experience/desire in the surveys. They all didn't turn out gay.
It is also true that sexuality exists on a spectrum between homosexuality and heterosexuality, with a lot of people somewhere between the two.
People who identify as bisexual can sometimes feel confusion as their attractions can change from day to day or month to month. Such confusion is the result of trying to internalise the concept of "one or the other".
All you can really do is see where your desires take you....
2006-12-08 06:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by hellyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want to tell some of these people on here to shut up. I think that its ok to think the same sex is attractive, and it doesnt mean that you are gay. Maybe you just havent found that guy who makes you feel that way yet. Maybe you're curious. . . you never know until you try it. Dont stress it, when things are meant to be they will be.
I wish you the best of luck with that.
2006-12-08 05:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! I've gone through the same thing. I'm gay but I sometimes wonder about guys. I could never be with a guy but I still wonder. Don't worry. It's just hormones.
2006-12-08 05:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Addicted to Crayola Paste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were u i would just follow ur heart, u might just be going threw a phrase..... i am 15 and i no im bi because i no 4 sure i could see my self with other girls, just ask urself questions and if u like guys 2, dont be afraid to tell because ur just hidding urself from everybody. yeah at first ppl will react different, but ur true friends will be with you. good luck at what u do!
2006-12-08 05:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Amber B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although most people would deny it, there is a spectrum between totally homosexual and totally heterosexual, and very few people are completely at one end or the other.
When bisexual impulses are weak, most people repress them, and describe themselves as 'totally straight', or 'totally homosexual'. But most people are a mixure of the two.
It is only of concern if you wish to label yourself. Otherwise, accept and enjoy what you are, and don't get too analytical about it.
2006-12-08 05:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by langdonrjones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm.....if you get turned on by girls the you are probably straight. I think that you can think a person of the same sex is beautiful and wonderful but that doesn't means you're gay.
2006-12-08 05:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went to therapy for this and it is usually just curiosity in a different sex but its not because your gay. if you don't want to be gay then you are probably not because its not what you want
2006-12-08 05:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being tempted by the Devil to take the wrong path to perversion, fight it and take the path of true love and pleasure.
2006-12-08 05:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ganymede 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋