Does anybody have any ideas that i could suprise my husband with tonight. I want him to think, WOW! Where did that come from!!
2006-12-08 05:09:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have done the toy thing and the anal thing
2006-12-08 05:13:29 · update #1
How about the dress up thing, or the oral thing, or the sex in public thing, or the porno thing, or the threesome thing?
2006-12-08 05:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good way to start is by doing stuff you would never do. For example oral sex, anal sex, and you could try different positions like 69. Don't stay one place when your having sex move around go on the floor, in the kitchen, in the bathroom, or anywhere in the house. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-08 05:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by blackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, there are only so many things you can _do_ and it sounds like you've done them.
Beyond that, its just where, when, context, etc.
If its going to be tonight, all I can suggest is try to spring it on him suddenly. No big lead up off to the bedroom. Just suddently start stimulating him out of the blue, whether its your foot under the dinner table, reaching over and unzipping while watching tv, whatever.
2006-12-08 08:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she desires some counseling, replaced into there any sexual abuse in her previous that you're conscious of? My spouse replaced into like that, as she has elderly, she looks peaking now, to three extent the position i'm having a troublesome time preserving including her. i imagine you should ask her bluntly to attempt to make more advantageous attempt to make issues more advantageous suited. If she isnt prepared, perhaps that is time to seek elsewhere. this must be a mutual element, not i am going to for you in elementary words to make you happpy! good luck Bro, It sucks! Been there performed that!
2016-11-30 07:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by coratello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different positions, if ur into sex movies watch them, read books, alot of the bore comes from doing the same ole crap. And you need foreplay. Sometimes the foreplay is better than the sex.
2006-12-08 05:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes us guys, just want to lay back and enjoy it. Sometimes we like the chase. Sometimes we need some sensuality. Sometimes we want you to be dirty. Sometimes we want yout to be suggestive.
Try leaving little notes around his normal habits, telling him what you're going to do to him when he gets home.
One of the best times my wife and I had was when I had returned to college. I was working tons and going to school, so she wanted to show me how much she appreciated me. When I got home from work one night, she met me at the door in her bathrobe and took all my books, coat and stuff from me. She took me by the hand and led me to the couch and gave me a glass of wine. She never said one word to me, then stood in front of me and dropped her robe to reveal NOTHING underneath. I won't tell you the rest ;) but it set the mood...
2006-12-08 05:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you tell him that it came from one of us? :)
why don't you meet him lingerie and put some nice candles around the room, and maybe a nice bottle of wine or champagne, and if you want to go all out, maybe some rose pedals too. Be creative and sexy!
2006-12-08 05:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I always try and find new places to make love. We make it a challenge.
2006-12-08 05:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You innitiate it and tell him to just sit back and enjoy it. Make it about him. And try some oral, I know my husband loves it.
2006-12-08 05:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try something new...explore together and take small steps. He'll appreciate the effort.
2006-12-08 05:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by puck4doug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋