Well, i went to the school secrataries house to help her decorate her x-mas tree w/ two of my friends. Well they left at 11:30 pm while we were watching movies. I stayed the night there and she has two sons. (1 younger and 1 2 years older) Well i had a pillow on his shoulder with my head on it because earlier 4 of us were piled onto 1 couch. Well this girl i HATE started spreding rumors around school that a had sex with him!!!! and she wasnt even there and she doesnt know that i know that it was her that was spreding the rumors. How do i get her back??? i cant think of the right way!!!!
2006-12-08 04:47:13 · 5 answers · asked by shak_ur_money_maker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best way to get back at her is to show her that what she says about you means absolutely nothing to you. Don't show her a reaction, it's what she wants, your reaction. I know that it will eat you up inside but it will eat her up inside even more knowing that she has no effect on you. Trust me and then you can "kill her with kindness," be extra kind to her it will drive her crazy." I know this to be true, there was this girl who didn't like me and I made every effort when I saw her to go up to her and say "Oh, how are you, what's new." She hated it, and I was loving every minute of it because I knew it made her uncomfortable. Always keep the upper hand don't stoop to her level, you will never win that way and you will feel worse for it, be above her.
2006-12-08 04:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by puggas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really want to stoop to her level, you can start a rumor that she gave a BJ to the entire football team, or that she caught crabs from your brother's friend (just make something up, she did!).
If you really want people to know it isn't true, maturity would be the best way, not even acknowledging her or the rumor will make people realize it isn't true. People usually only get mad about something if it is true, so the madder you get, the more fuel you give the rumor. Just say, "SHe's jealous and so she made something up, I'm not going to give her the satisfaction of talking about it or her".
2006-12-08 12:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't get her back. You let life get her back, and you keep focusing on your dreams and goals. Why do you want to use your energy on someone like her for? If the rumor she is preaching is a lie, then it means nothing anyway.
2006-12-08 12:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i've had a rumor started about me and i didn't enjoy it...but what i would do is just laugh it off and let the girl know how pissed it made you...don't get her back then you would lower down to her...so stay straight and don't do anything
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2006-12-08 12:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You confront her one good time, and beat her a** one good time. Soon after that she won't go around saying things about you anymore.
2006-12-08 12:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Bout It 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋