should i break up with him,hes 15 and im 17?

Question

my boyfriend is 15 and we have been going out for five months. sometimes i feel clustered by him. he tells me he loves me but his actions say otherwise. sometimes i feel so lucky and blessed whereas other times i feel miserable and i dont even want tl be allive. what should i do i really love him but he drives me insane sometimes. and if i do stay with him is it going to last. and if a break up with him i know that im going to reget it. what do i do. he's my first love and people tell me that the only reason i don't break up with him is that i gave him my virginity.help i'm in desperate need!!!!

Answer 1

Well, I know this is hard but I can so relate I was 13 and he was 14 we dated for 3 years and we had given our virginity to each other. I will let you know from experience that I still love him ( it has been 5 years and I am married and have a child) I will always have a place for him but it is a different kind of love. You might think it is the end of the world and that you will never find anyone else but I PROMISE you, you will!! I think if this relationship is causing that much problems you should stay friends but go on. I wish I had spent more time in high school dating instead of being in a committed relationship worrying over every thing!! Be a teenager and date around and you learn from relationships you have so when you do fall in love with the one ( I think that you can be in love 2 or 3 times) you will appreciate all the guys you have experienced before. It makes you appreciate the one you have.

Good Luck and if you need to talk my E-mail is [e-mail]

Answer 2

If I we're his sister or mom. I would press charges against you right when you turn 18. And there is a change that his mom might do that so you need to move on. Ya I know its hard especially when he was your first BUT there will be other men in your life. And you'll have the same feeling for your next boyfriend or perhaps even stronger feeling. I would think your graduating from high school soon, so there will be much more attractive men, intelligent men that may come your way. Just don't close your self to one person.

Answer 3

Let nature take its natural course, don´t do anything, stay with him ,if you don´t like him, unconsciously you will do something to finish the relation.

Try speaking with him about what bothers you. If that doesn´t work go to a psychologist.

Men and women are just the same, both want the same things, but society tries to confuse us about our roles in life.

You just are being push by somebody else to do what you don´t want to do, don´t listen to anybody except yourself.

Go to a park or somewhere quiet and think what is best for you, relations came and go, sex doesn´t mean anything. It doesn´t make you special to be with a guy just because he was your first one.

My advise will be try finding someone more mature and with good feelings.

The eyes of a person tell a lot of things, when you are speaking to somebody look deep into their eyes, gestures, and so on, and you will find more answers.

Answer 4

well, first of all a 15 year old (much less a 17 yr old) shouldn't be having sex! He isn't old enough to work full time to support you if you were to become pregnant. And the word love that you so fluently are saying...you have only known him / dated him for less than 1/2 of a year! You can't love someone in that amount of time...not truly. Focus on school and college...not a 15 year old bf who can't drive / work / etc!

Answer 5

Don't worry too much...i suggest you leave him....soon your gonna be 18 and you don't want any problems with he's parents no matter how much you love him right now seems not to be the right time for you 2. Or you can either ask him for some space and help with this that your feeling...tell him how much you care for him but that your not so comfortable.

Good Luck..!

Answer 6

Any boy that makes you feel miserable is not one to be with. You will have a broken heart when you break up, but it won't last for ever. I think you should break up with him and hang out with your girl friends for a while. Later, you will find another biyfriend that will make you happier. Infact, you will likely have many boyfriends in the future.

Answer 7

sweets staying with him cause you had sex is not a good reason to stay. and all relationships are going to drive you nuts. believe me, mine has lasted 2 years already and im going crazy lol. but besides all of that at 15 im sure you dont even know what love is...im guessing because you said his actions say otherwise. over all look at the relationship and see if its worth staying in. if not, then you know what you have to do.

love jen.

Answer 8

If age is the only reason, why bother going out with him in the first place???
Welcome to the wonderful world of relationships! Sometimes you want space, other times you want him. Isn't love grande?

Answer 9

in case you have had intercourse alongside with your 17 year previous guy and you're 15, i might say which you're a minor interior the eyes of the regulation. whilst he turns into an person on the age of 18 he would be breaking the regulation and he ought to bypass to reformatory in the experience that your father and mom call the police. in case you're clever you will possibly desire to attend till you're of age.

Answer 10

Woman, you need to leave that kid alone, he's 15? Geez, at least date someone that doesn't need mom making decisions for him. He's still a minor. Can you imagine, if you break up with him, he can turn around and throw the book at you. Accuse you of statutory rape.(the offense under U.S. law of having sexual relations with somebody who has not reached the legal age of consent) Girl if it's a sexual relationship, your *** is going to JAIL. You need to rip him off your chest, gently.