I was devorced three years ago, and I have 3 beautiful boys that I stayed at home with every day while my x-husband worked 24/7. I asked for a devorce after 8 years of loneliness. When we went to court, my x-husbands parents(whom are very rich) scared me into letting my x have primary custody because he could financually take care of them, while I tryed to get a job, a house, a life. I only get to see them every-other weekend and in summers. I love my kids so much! I cry everyday because they are not with me. Im currently in med.-school with only 2 years left, so I will be able to offer my kids a great life. My x never spends time with them, and of course he is never home, even though he has gotten re-married. What can I do to change the coart papers the other way around?? This hurts so bad!
2006-12-08 04:41:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are numerous things to consider here. First, how well have the kids adjusted to this current schedule? I mean you have to make sure your intentions here aren't selfish. If the children are capable of making a decision (appx 8-10 years old) you might want to speak with them on these matters. You wouldn't want all of this to backfire on you because you didn't consider them. Other than that, stay the course with med-school and giving them a stable enviorment. When it's all said and done, you simply take your ex back to court if he refuses to allow you more time with your kids. By the way, I am speaking from some experience here, just something more to consider.
2006-12-08 05:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by zildjian152 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to believe ur in med school with the way u are spelling, i also find it hard to believe the courts would give ur ex custody of the kids or the fact that the parents scared u, just not buying it. If u want to change the court papers get a lawyer.
2006-12-08 04:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Michele 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to contact you local legal aid office.If you can't afford a lawyer.If you gave them permeate custody you will have to fight for custody.But if you only gave them temp guardianship than in some state all you have to do is contact the grandparents with you intent to revoke the agreement and they will have to give the children back.But before you let them know anything you should find out what your rights are were you live.You don't want to give them a heads up until you know were you stand.Good Luck!
2006-12-08 08:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to an attorney. unfortunately, some judges would look down on you going to school. they would say that between work/school, you wouldnt have time for them like their father and his new wife do.
you will have to prove that you could provide a better "home" for them. if you can prove he isnt with the kids (hire a private detective for example), and keep logs of EVERYTHING. every phone call you make and ex isnt home, or hte kids are with a babysitter, etc... date, time, etc.... the more you have before you go into court, the better you will be.
2006-12-08 04:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dawni T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with a lawyer and go back to court is the only way.
2006-12-08 04:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 01:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by esannason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a lawyer? I would go to the local court and get papers to ammend the custody order. I do not know what they are called in your state...but probably a motion to ammend.
2006-12-08 04:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good lawyer. I mean a GOOD one, not just an average one. I don't see any other way, since you did sign papers giving your X primary custody.
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2006-12-08 04:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the place to find your answer, you need to seek legal advice. Only a good lawyer can give you the definitive advice you require. Good luck, and I hope things work out for you.
2006-12-08 04:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contact the atty you handled the divorce through and ask him to file on your behalf......he will be the only one or another atty to help you dry the tears. Push forward and you will be united once again with your children
2006-12-08 04:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋