I'm in Junior High School and tottally azn girl wit azn attitude >.< keehee just kiddin. there is a reallliiiiii popular azn group *just girls* i am close peepz with a main girl n a secondary. I hung out wit them once n immediatley understood a bit of their "rules". How can I approach them or encourage them to help me?
2006-12-08 04:37:04 · 9 answers · asked by simplekissfo.lilaznbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This kind of reminds me of mean girls. Well if the group is that important to you and they have rules and everything then the first thing to do is to talk to the one girl you already know. Talk to her about how you're serious and really want to be in the group. Have her talk to the rest of them and then go from there.
Another way is to approach the girls your self and if you know all the rules then recite the rules for them. That should be impressive and also let them know how serious you are. I think that may be the best way because even though you know one of the girls that doesn't reall y mean anything.
Good luck!
2006-12-08 04:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth and LaQuita B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- doy ou want to join their group? find out what they are all about and what they do because when iw as in hight school there was always the group of popular girls in school but those girls were like crazy. In order to be in their group i had to go to parties with them, drink, smoke (weed & cigarrettes) and fool around with all the guys. You don't want to be known as a looser or school slut because if these girls to gain popularity. Find out what they are about and then maybe talk to one of them and mmaybe she can get you in.
2006-12-08 04:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I went through the exact same thing you are going through in middle school. what I did was I never hung out with the so-called "populars." Don't become one of them, because you don't want to know what they will do for their iniciation. Most of the time, they tell you to do something humiliating or something you will regret for the rest of your life Like, I had to have sex with this girl in order to get in.
When I told her I ouldn't because of my religion, she said fine. I was so happy I didn't.
So what's more important, you, or them?
2006-12-08 04:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Draco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I am a Junior in High School. You should'nt be ashamed to approach them and ask them if you don't understand something. If you don't want to bring the situation up and front of the group, then pull one of them to the side and ask her. NEVER BE SCARED. ONE OF THE WORST PERSONALITIES.
2006-12-08 04:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bout It 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and talk to one of them and let them bring you into the circle. You shouldnt have to change who you are to be apart of a group, if they dont like you for who you are then why do you want to be friends with someone like that. If they dont let you in it is ok find friends who like you for who you are
2006-12-08 04:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn proper grammar. Cuz no one thinks you cool writin like a fool.
2006-12-08 04:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cool, try to find out someway... talk about the topics they like...
2006-12-08 04:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Agent_Double 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help you with what?
2006-12-08 04:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??!!??
2006-12-08 04:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋