2006-12-08 04:33:36 · 10 answers · asked by Japanese Kimono 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah she was a teenager once. Just tell her exactly how you feel, she will understand.
2006-12-08 04:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By stand her up do you mean Stand up to her?
I used to lie a LOT to my parents. I grew up in what I thought at the time to be a strict Christian home. I lied about where I'd go, I'd sneak out my window, all because I thought my parents would never let me do what I wanted. It's not like I was even doing anything bad.
I know it's easier said than done, but TRY TRY TRY to be honest and upfront with your parents about what you're doing and where you're going and who your friends are. If you're honest with them it makes life SOOOO much easier. You don't have to worry about keeping your lies straight or anything. Trust me on this one. If you ask your mom to do something and she says no, you can always say back to her something like, "Mom, I'm telling you the truth about what I'm doing because I respect you and I want us to have an honest relationship. If you keep being so strict about my life then I'm only going to start lying and telling you what you want to hear and be going behind your back and I REALLY don't want to do that. TRUST ME, please, it'll be ok." Start be coming home early on your own, not because she's calling you yelling wondering where you are. This will surprise her and make it easier for when you stay out a bit later. It shows your parents you can be responsible. Show them responsibility and they'll be able to trust you more with your decisions when you want to do something...
Good luck!
2006-12-08 12:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try once again to talk about her and tell her how you feel. If she still doesn't let up on you, then stand up, and take action. Then she will be coming to you asking you why are you acting like this. Then let her know why.
2006-12-08 12:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bout It 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you made a promise to do something with her it's your responsibility to keep the promise and not make plans with others when you already made a promise to her.
best yo keep your plans in order and tell others,I already am committed on that day or evening.
2006-12-08 12:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do like many children who live at home. Put up with your parents until you get old enough to move out, then move out. Patience patience patience.
2006-12-08 12:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her but in tha mean while dont stand her up
2006-12-08 12:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by dyme of 06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd tell her how I feel.....it's the best way instead of keepin it in
2006-12-08 12:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Deidra S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have a talk with her, im sure yu can work something out
2006-12-08 12:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stand her up.
2006-12-08 12:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont go around her.tell her how u feel
2006-12-08 12:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by dylan m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋