well.. i use here to thanks to the ppl who have given me some advice .. and i have made my move to abbort tis baby and my gf has agree with me and .. we are sad but i hope that is wad i do help and wan to do ... i try but i guess i'll fail as a dad to the baby... i'm sorry ... there ain't much i can do for the baby ... so now me and my gf now togther already but will still be friends. ... yup.. once thanks again for the ppl who have advise me ...
2006-12-08 04:31:02 · 3 answers · asked by jeb_phs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know what you are really trying to say here, and I really don't mean to be rude here, but with what seems like a lack of education on your part just from reading what you posted, then a baby isn't something you really need at this point, because I can't see how you could possibly support a child when you cannot spell correctly or form sentences.
2006-12-08 04:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but wouldn't it be better to let someone adopt the baby? The baby would have a chance at a great life, your g/f wouldn't have that regret hit her later. Yes, there would be a chance of the child wanting to meet you later in life, but explaining the situation at the time, would help. You would find the child would thank and respect you for at least giving them life. there are people that will adopt. they will pay all prenatal and delivery bills. I know my daughter has a great life in another state with her parents.
2006-12-09 14:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by ericpaulette2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me please! the first time i got pregnant i was in college and my boyfriend at the time couldnt handle the responsibility of being a father. so i had an abortion just because he was not ready. if he would have agreed to keep the baby i would have kept it.make sure thats what she wants to do. this decision will hunt you guys for the rest of your life. i have a 5 month old son now and i still think about that abortion. it still hunts him as well. he wished that we should have struggled to take care of the baby rather than take the baby's life. i hoped this helped.
2006-12-08 12:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋