My ex is pregnant (not mines) but she want me back in her life. I told her that hooking back up with me should be the last thing on her mind. But she is still driving on hooking up. What should i do or go about this?
2006-12-08 04:30:33 · 3 answers · asked by don w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her she is an ex for a reason and that you have gone through personal growth and have gotten on with your life, hopefully she will do the same..
You are sorry she is in this predicament but you are not involved with it and she will have to figure it out herself.
She is looking for someone to take care of her and the baby,..... that is it... so don't be fooled..
This is not about her loving you....
I wouldn't keep up the friendship as I think she will drag you down and be constantly bugging you and looking for sympathy...and money$$$$$$
Two steps forward... NO STEPS BACKWARD.
Go in the opposite direction and don't look back....
2006-12-08 04:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to cut off contact with her if she makes you feel uncomfortable. Friendship with ex's never seem to work. Another thing to do is never meet with her alone, but with another person. Hopefully it might deter her a bit, although then again it might not.
Tell her that the relationship is over and that you value her friendship, it's too late to go back.
2006-12-08 05:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doclakewr is right.
Run like h***!
(I'm not going to ask what you want to do because you asked for advice, which means you don't know which way to go!)
Make tracks, man!
2006-12-08 04:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋