had sex with this girl almost 3 weeks ago (19 nov). she called me that saturday (25 nov) to tell me that she thinks she missed her period. i wore a condom, i did not c*m, and it did not break. last thursday she took EPT and it said "not pregnant". she claims to not have had sex with anyone else (but I am not so sure). i instinctively feel as though i couldnt have gotten her preg. whats interesting is that she claims to have serious financial problems and is begging for help with mortgage. even said "give me money so I can go to doctor and figure it out myself" (but who knows how she would really use the money) deep down i dont trust her...she said her period is never normal and shes not even sure what here cycle is but thinks she has already missed it for sure...so she took another test this morning after waking up and it says "not pregnant". do you all think i am in the clear now? thanks in advance.
2006-12-08 04:26:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous... 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
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First off alot fo women are complaining of this problem right now. Some are Virgins, absolutely no way they are pregnant. I think the sudden dramatic shifts in nature recently and it bounceing around (it was in the 80's one day here and in the teens the day after the day after then it decided to be in the 70's for a week, then it decided to be a suddenly snow storm,.. there were like 3 major insane weather things that hit each other in like Michigan a week ago or something,.. ) is messing up and throwing off alot of women. Someone really needs to make a Question to summon everyone haveing this problem and have them give updates but noone wants, too because they are all stressed out.
Second this is something some girls do to be selective over who can provide for them
Third some times a girl has one or more periods or even spotting through out their Pregnancy.
Fourth you do not need to give her money to go see a doctor
Fifth the best test for if there is a pregnancy is a Blood Test from a doctor and that's still not always right.
Sixth,.. get her to relax, be distracted, then drink something like a Red Icee/Slushie but get her too busy doing stuff to want to go to the bathroom right away. Some how that destresses some women out and they start their flow.
2006-12-08 04:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your in the clear because first of all she wouldn't know if she was less than ten days after having sex with you and if you are sure the condom didn't break then you should be in the clear and I would suggest staying away from her. She sounds scandelous and just wants peoples money to help her out! STAY AWAY!!! Good luck but don't listne to her and certainly don't give her any money either! If she is still persistant than take her to the doctor yourself, but if two tests came up neg than you will be fine!
2006-12-08 04:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by MLP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wore a condom, and you didn't ejaculate...I think it's pretty hard to get pregnant in that situation. You aren't under any obligation to give her money (especially if you question how she would spend it), but you could go to a planned parenthood clinic with her and split the cost of an actual test. That would be the fair thing to do.
2006-12-08 04:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Julia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's been plenty of time to show a positive test, but it is possible it may not show. A blood test would be most accurate. There are places that do those for free.
It sounds to me like she's trying to trap you due to her financial status. But two test negative, she probably is not pregnant and just wishing she was and that can cause her delay in her period.
2006-12-08 04:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her tests keep coming out negative - then you have nothing to worry about. It also doesn't cost her anything to go to the doctor and find out if she's pregnant. She's a drama queen for carrying on like this when not even sure if she is or isn't yet. Once you find out for sure that she's not pregnant, do yourself a favour and drop her quickly. Even a good lay doesn't merit all this hassle...
2006-12-08 05:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are overthinking it. Take a being pregnant experiment and placed this myth to mattress already. Get at the tablet. You do not ought to inform your boyfriend. If you have got this so much being pregnant anxiousness whilst you are now not having intercourse, suppose how so much worse it'll be whilst you do...
2016-09-03 10:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by polka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the sex was three weeks ago it wouldnt show up on a test yet not a pee test wait a week and test again or take her to a doctor and have a blood serum test done it would show up now. a urine test wont til her period is late/ at birth get a dna test. if she was late for her cycle on the 25th it wouldnt be yours.
2006-12-08 04:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's still too early to get a positive result. She sounds like she is lying if she told you less then a week later she missed her period.
2006-12-08 04:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by KathyS 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would still be a little concerned. But please do NOT give her anymoney. Take her to a birthplace where they give free tests if you want to find out for sure with your own two eyes, As far as I am concerned it sounds like a plea to get money.
2006-12-08 04:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by treecesherry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in the first place...DO NOT GIVE HER ANY MONEY...if she is pregnant ,you aren`t the father...maybe the father is just a poor guy..and she wants some money...and because of that she says that u are the father of his son....this...if she is pregnant ..and she doesn`t lie
2006-12-08 04:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by andreea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋