2006-12-08 04:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can't understand what kind of your love with your cousin who is ten years older than you. If it means only physical contact, your future would be problematic. In case he loves you with the intention of marrying you, it is OK. Medical science prohibits marriage among the cousins because their children might inherit some biological problems. Think well in the interest of you and your children. Let wisdom prevail over the emotions. Good luck!
2006-12-08 06:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by SRIRANGAM G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again look at your question - you are already in love with your Cousin and then you are asking permission for your act...or you are seeking approval???
I believe, its always ones own preferences and definitions - we do what we want to do. We seek suggestions to justify our deeds. Well, its up to you - as long as your conscience allows you. Loving anyone was never a crime, never it would be. We have two aspects to consider - mental and physical.
Mental is the emotional or psychological aspect (sometimes also referred to as Platonic) which does not harm anyone. I dont see any problem in that.
As far as physical aspect is concerned (committed or non-committed doesn't matter) - if you want to get involved, its your preference and if you are comfortable, enjoy the moments to the fullest. The biological aspects comes to picture only when you have a commitment in a relation. I have freinds from gujarat and andhra, who got married to their first cousins, although at that moment it was a shock to me, but lately I have accepted it as a usual aspect of life....if I respect you as a human...I should be happy when you feel happy for something....so...what I believe is nobody can help you..you have to convince yourself about its being right or wrong and then justify your mental, emotional, psychological, physical gratification.
Only thing to keep in mind - at the last - you should be a HAPPY PERSON, full of energy and satisfied with life and no regrets - not a shattered personality, right.
All the Best :-)
2006-12-08 18:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Octoberfestin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, love can happen with anybody of any age, caste, credd, community or religion etc. etc. IT IS TRUE.
But first of all, we are not aware of your own age. So, difference of 10 years is somewhat vague.
Then, you must know that the marriages in the cousines are prohibited due to many reasons including the biologicla, medical, religious or otherwise.
You have not mentioned whether the cousine is also in love with you and you are ready to spend rest of your life together.
If this relationship is one-sided; prohibited by law or religion; physical attraction, you are inviting troubles for yourself.
Have second thoughts...
2006-12-08 16:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your cousin? Hmm, sounds like incest to me. But I'm african who knows. maybe I'm butting into the wrong culture. But then I've heard some africans say "cousins make dozens"! As for love, it's in ur heart and his heart. if he feels the same age tends to be just a number. good luck on your quest!!
2006-12-08 19:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by africangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number of years they have been alive, nothing to do with your relationship. Treat each other with respect, both as equals, go out of your way to have fun, laughter and more important love. Good luck
2006-12-08 10:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as u r comfortable ,how can a problem arise.......but see that ur parents, ur love n his parents r agreeing to it.......if they dont have any problem....than go a head......there r couples who have a age difference of more than 15 yrs......they r happy in thier life......no age comes between love.....the thing that is important is the ability of urself to make ur relationship everlasting......gud luck
2006-12-08 15:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by nida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no boundaries! Go ahead and enjoy urself....almaas1974@gmail.com
2006-12-08 05:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Almaas Ahmed 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, because love dont need age
2006-12-08 19:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by rupesh gawande 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.
does he have the same feelings towards u?
love who ever you want.
=]
2006-12-08 05:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by bosstastic<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age no bar for love.....................go for it if u know that its gonna have a future for that love..................otherwise its just waste of time
2006-12-08 07:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by benzmyfav 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋