This is not a homophobic question but a genuine query
2006-12-08 04:20:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Being a lesbian...I can tell you that I do not use one but no some like penetration and therefore use them. Being a lesbian isnt just about sex you know...its emotional as well as physical attraction! Not every lesbian uses toys!!! Just like not every striahgt person does oral or every gay man does anal!
Its not the point that we dont like penetration?!! Where did ye pull that from? You think thats why girls are gay?!! Read up on it and educate yourselves if you are so interested!
2006-12-08 04:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Your genuine query is noted, however, there a too many people out there who believe in stereotyping lesbians, and are so single minded and ignorant. ( No offence intended, but merely a fact)
Like heterosexuals, lesbians have different likes and dislikes. Not all lesbians use dildos. Just because lesbians do not prefer men, does not mean to say that they do not like penetration. Some heterosexual men indulge in anal sex with their wives, but it does not make them gay. Alot of people are too interested in what lesbians do sexually. For some, it is understood that this is a fetish; however, lesbians are women too. But above all, they are human beings. They have red blood, white bones and go to the toilet just like everyone else on the planet! And nowadays, lesbians do not feel the need to 'make a statement,' so they are not all butch 'men wannabes.' Also......lesbians only dislike the sexual aspect of men, they dont dislike men...they dislike jerks!
By the way, I have just noticed a previous question that you have answered where you said lesbians are stupid. Maybe some are, but not all are! And like everyone else, some get upset more easily than others. I have a sense of humour and I do not upset easily. I just tell it like it is. I've noticed that 'the religious crew' tend to get very upset if you mock their religion.
2006-12-08 04:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know the answer to your supposedly 'serious' enquiry, but I'm curious ~
Why is it that some 'men' (and I do use the term loosely) seem to find it a problem that lesbians 'are not interested in men'...?
As a possible 'answer' for you, try this.......
I don't have a hairy back, but there are times when I love having a hairbrush being run down my back, or across my shoulder blades ~ with a certain level of 'firmness.'
In this case, there is nothing sexual in it, it just feel so good (and especially on hot days). So, why not a lesbian enjoying the penetrative application of a instrument / gizmo / utensil / implement / device or, whatever you have to call it, for pleasure and or satisfaction?
2006-12-08 10:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Penetration, when it hits the right spot, creates physical pleasure. Ok, let's say for the sake of argument that we had sex with men, and they are good in bed, after orgasm, what are we gonna do with them? Wash them and keep them in the closet?
Men are people, who happen to have a penis. It's not that lesbians don't like the penis, it's just that lesbians are not attracted to men. And men are more than just sex objects (see? we're not that bad), they are people too and have a need for relationships (Ok, maybe not all...), it would be quite unfair to use them, clean them up and hang them to dry for next use.
Dildos are tools, but lesbian relationships are exactly that... relationships. And the sex part is just an icing on the cake.
2006-12-08 05:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
That's a very good question.The only thing I can think of,It's strong but true,Men are here for Woman And Woman are here for Men.The world would have stopped along time ago if Woman were meant for Woman or Man for Man. No matter how hard you try you can't get away from the very thought of the need for a mate.See we have corrupted the world and made it OK to seek companionship with same gender of being.I tell you what do this for fifty years and see what the outcome is,Take thirty homosexuals,24 woman and 6 men.Put them on a deserted island with no hope of rescue.Give them all food and supplies they would need to survive for the fifty years.I can almost guarantee you that when you return there will be children ,Its just human nature.If it were meant for same sex union's then man and woman would be able to reproduce without the use of each other.
2006-12-08 04:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
I just addressed this in a previous question I answered about misconceptions about homosexuals. most lesbians, including myself DON'T use dildos (I had an ex who liked them, but I really wasn't too thrilled with them).
and lesbians don't dislike men, we're just not physically attracted to the. I like men...I have lots of male friends. I just don't sleep with them.
and using dildos is not about wanting a penis or trying to "be" a man. it's about penetration, and how good it feels. which you don't need a penis (or a dildo) for.
2006-12-08 04:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am more attracted to ALL of the qualities of a woman more than ALL of the qualities of a man. The fact that I love women does not reside on the fact that I dont prefer a penis... Being gay is a little more complicated than a piece of anatomy that everyone is obsessed with. BTW... it is a little stereotypical of you to assume that all lesbian use dildos.
2006-12-08 04:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by U2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So they are not attracted to men. The obvious conclusion from not being attracted to men is not that they don't like the "tools" it's that they aren't into men. Lesbians enjoy physical pleasure like any one else, that's why some use dildos.
2006-12-08 04:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I have never used one and im a lesbian i would like to use one the reason why i would like to use one is because i like to try new things.I think the reason some use one is for the excitement not all lesbians use one most of the tI'me i think is that a stud or a butch like to use them on there fem like me im a fem most stud don't like the whole thing they don't like for there partner to use it on them cuz most stud never had sex with a guy and that why they don't use one but I'm not sure.
2006-12-08 04:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Straight women use dildos probably even more often than lesbians. does that mean all men are useless tossers????
2006-12-08 09:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Early 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋