What do i do,I HATE MY LIFE?

Question

Ok so basically my school sucks,Im a Junior in HighSchool im failing 2 classes and i STILL NEED TO MAKE up 2 credits from freshman year, Im still "in the closet" Because my mom HATES GAY PEOPLE so im stuck there.........My self esteem is extremely LOW i hate it,and SCHOOL IS SO HARD........i dont think im going to graduate on time which also sucks......WHAT DO I DO???? I NEED SOME HELP oh And I get real depressed here in school and I WANNA MOVE SCHOOLS is it worth it???? Its just that i need something new thats why i wanna move well so i think i do anyways,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,WHAT DO I

Answer 1

O.k. This one is easy.

1) You're gay and you've accepted that so that part is good. Don't hate your mom because she hates gays. This is her right and she is entitled to her opinion, just as you are. She still loves you. I would wait to tell her until you've moved out and are financially stable.

2) Take the time to study and finish your courses in school. So what if you don't finish "on time" at least you'll finish, which is more than I can say for a lot of people. Don't move schools. Stick with the one your at.

3) Life gets better so don't think that this is the end of the world for you. This is only the beginning.

I wish you luck in your future.

Answer 2

If it is an option to switch schools, and your mom doesn't have a problem with it, why not? Just keep in mind that this change may not be a magic pill. Your new school may be just as bad, if not worse then the one your currently in. What is it that sucks so bad about the one your in? Is it because of the people or more your situation with how behind you are? Now lets talk about your being in the closet. This is an obvious huge stresser in itself, and you are carrying it all inside. Not good. Just because your mom doesn't except the fact that your gay, doesn't mean that you can't have your own opinion concerning this and this is a part of you that I am hoping that you can learn to love and embrace. People hide things that they feel are bad. Hunny, this is who you are! Accept it, deal with it and move on! You have to take a positive look at this, and make a choice that, ya know what? I don't give a flying fig what the crap everyone else thinks, says or does. I'm going to do what I am going to do. Period. End of sentence. You are a good person, high school bites and it will all be over soon and then you can start YOUR OWN LIFE. Stay focused on graduating high school first. Look at the light at the end of the tunnel and picture yourself there. Talk to your school guidance counselor about your school work that your behind in and ask what can you do to improve your situation. Even if that means staying after or coming in early. Maybe summer school, whatever it takes to get the flock outta there on time. Good luck, my dear! I'm thinking about you!!

Answer 3

first of all, I'm sorry all this is happening to you...this is supposed to be the best time of your life. high school is supposed to be awesome and the foundation for your future life to be. don't stress...
if you can't graduate on time, so what??? do the best you can do. don't let this get you down. you shouldn't have self esteem issues so young. you are doing nothing wrong. hating school is understandable, but try your hardest and get these classes done so you can put this behind you and be a productive young man. isn't there some way you can get a tutor to help you? go to the school guidance counselor and tell them what's up or go to peer counseling. nothing personal, i don't think that being gay was thrust upon you, i think you knew this for awhile. i have two young daughters and they are now 5 and 6. i don't want them to be gay but if they came to me and said they were, you can bet the bank i would support them and tell them i love them no matter what. parents want the best for their children in ALL circumstances. no one wants their children to be gay and no one chooses to be gay. you are and you can't change it so why not get some school counseling and see how to deal with coming out. i bet the whole root of all these problems is the part of not wanting to tell your mom because you are afraid and the whole student body knowing. if your mom is a sensible person, as a mother, she would do whatever she could in all her power to make sure you were happy and that is accepting your sexual orientation. i wouldn't wish it for my kids, but i sure wouldn't let it make them feel bad or unloved. the reason your mom hates gay people is i bet she doesn't know any let alone know your circumstances it just typical stereotyping. if you were my son, i would hold you until we both stopped crying. after that i would support you the entire way. don't be so hard on yourself...the world will do that for you. relax and take the reigns, you can do it. if you need later help, i will try to help you find some counseling if you like. don't hesitiate to contact me either im or email.
good luck!
remember, everything will be okay. this isn't the end of the world.

Answer 4

hang in there. DO NOT drop out of school. you will regret it. Things will get better. I would suggest telling your mom that you are gay, even though you say she says she hates gay people. It could make things better for you. Perhaps she doesn't know how much this is hurting you, and will stop hating when you tell her you are gay. she is your mother and i hope that she will love you no matter what.
I think most people have a sense of who is gay or not. you may think you are hiding it well, but maybe everyone already knows and doesn't care so much.
anyways. when you get out of high school, the world will be much better. hight school sucks. the kids are terrible. college is way better in terms of people. good luck. just keep on going. know that people have been where you are before and have made it out. this is your struggle. make a dream for something better and then see it through. i really wish you well.

Answer 5

Hang in there man, life is hard and it will always be hard you just have to tell your self you won't let the world beat you down, you are much stronger than that. And if you don't think it will go well when u tell your mom about your being gay. then wait until it feels right to tell her. i'm mean come on your her son and i'm sure if she is any kiond of a parent at all she will still love u no matter what . she might be alil shocked for awhile butshe will get over it. you are who you are and nothing can change that so just be proud keep your chin up. and your grades i can't really help you on that because i dropped out of school and i got my GED. and i know it probably hard right nowto focus on school work when your feeling so down but like i said keep your chin up and nothing can bring u down. just try to relax or hang out with a friend or whatever makes you feel better and just keep telling yourself no one can bring u down you are strong. i hope everything workss out for you and i'm sure it will. stay strong.

Answer 6

I'm sorry your feeling so bad. High school can be hard, especially when you're personal life is a mess too. Have you talked to your teachers about the classes? Maybe you can do a special assignment as a make-up project? Is there a teacher that you feel comfortable with? Maybe together you can work on your assignments and get your grades up. It must be hard to have feelings inside about your sexually and have no one to talk to. In my opinion, you are who you are and that is the way it is, and no one should hate you for it. But I know people do, and you know you Mom better then me, so is there another family member you can confide in? Maybe after talking to them, telling them how you feel, you can consider moving in with them and attending the school there.
Life is hard, and high school is harder. It does get better. And I want you to feel better about yourself. People fall behind and its easy to get discouraged. I really want you to feel better and be happy. The Boys and Girls Town Hotline might help. Call them now- 1-800-448-3000. Talk to them, they might have a better solution.
Good Luck

Answer 7

You really should talk to your counselor at school. Thats what they are there for. You're not the only one in this situation so don't fret, you can't get past all of this and hopefully one day feel free enough to come on out of that closet and live your life the way you want to.

Answer 8

when our hand is hurt we don't replace our hand with a new hand rather we heal the same hand.
so stop thinking abt switching schools and focus on ur present and concentrate to improve.
about life , just think about the hundreds of millions of people who do not have a PC like you to ask others to help them out,who do not even know what internet is.think about them and then know that you are in much better position.so why be down and out.you have a nice life.go live it.

Answer 9

well does your dad feel the same way? and....it kinda sounds to me like you do need something new...but if youve been at your school for a while then really ask yourself if you wanna move...and the thing with your mom..dont sweat it...shell find out when the time is right.

Answer 10

u have to work hard for ur studies & try to achive ur goals....
u can do that by just studying more an more an bcome master in all the subjects ny taking tutions taking help from ur frnds sis bro & even frm me....
try to do best now u r just better make tht better to gud & from tht gud do the best.....