i dont no i like it or not . but sometimes i feel bad when he said that she was good i loves her to much. and my laws also talk about her. its right or wrong.what i have to do.
2006-12-08 03:55:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you say she is no more I am thinking that she died. If that is the case then they are still mourning her loss. It is especially true around the holiday season. Just be patient and don't be jealous. If someone you loved died ; you would still have those feelings and need to talk about them. He is being open with you by talking about it with you.
If you mean that he is just talking about how much he loves his ex wife who has moved on in her life then he needs to stop that. As for his family ; you can't control how they feel. You can however develop a relationship with them so that they will come to love you too. You can also ask them not to talk about her in front of you because it hurts your feelings. If they still do that then stop going over there and when they ask you why tell tell them that you don't appreciate their disregard for your feelings and don't need to be around it.
2006-12-08 04:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off why not try to get custody of the little girl. It sounds like her mom isn't the best role model for her. You should understand that the little girl is only acting the way she sees her mother act. If this is not an option, then I would say to save all of the messages that she leaves and take them to court with you. Keep receipts of every support payment. Just in case she tries to say you aren't paying. But I really think that you should try to get the little girl away from her mom. She has a new sibling and needs to get to know them. And it sounds like you really care for the little girl. Or you wouldn't have asked for help on what to do. Try to understand how the little girl feels. It really sounds like you and your husband could give her a stable home where love is the glue and not hate. Your husbands ex sounds like she may be jealous of you and everything you and your husband have. Not physical things, but your love for one another and your family.
2016-03-28 23:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and hubby need to get on the same sheet of parchment (marriage certificate). You can't grow or move forward holding on to an illusion or fantasy. In the real world of marriage you give birth to possibilities of "the new identity" and relationship, bring the best of all your experiences to the table, and relinquish the unfruitful past.
2006-12-08 04:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Humpti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accecpt that part of his life and move on. I'm sorry he is a widower (i'm taking a big guess from 'who is no more'). He was a major part of his life, and he never treated her wrong. So that is a good sign for you..that means he won't treat you wrong, or hurt you. you've got a good man!! But if it does bother you, just tell him, hey it bothers me! and leave it at that!
2006-12-08 04:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them know that you are you..She was the past you are the future.My X is doing that with his wife now and I let him know that it is really heartbreaking and not fair to her to hear about me so much.If he loved me so much we wouldn't have divorced.Let your husband know how you feel and that it's hurtful.
2006-12-08 04:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was really a good person.....i dont think there is anything wrong with that, hes not with her now for a reason so why worry about it....he still has respect for her, so thats a good thing. you have a good man, stop worrying!
2006-12-08 04:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jackeeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she WAS so GREAT why are they not STILL married,tell him its either you or her,no one deserves to be compared to someones past,and you deserve kindness,not that stuff they keep saying.Tell them how you feel,and then go from there,
2006-12-08 03:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by too_many_hatz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, sounds like he & his family are still in love w/her.
2006-12-08 03:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by dumbdago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant understand your question, take a grammar/english class
2006-12-08 03:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Dispatcher94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's his point? If he thought so much of her, how come she was his ex?
2006-12-08 04:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋