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My wife came home from the gym last week and basically attacked me. We had some of the best sex ever. I joked with her saying, what has gotten in to you? She laughed it off saying, "I can't tell you...you'll be jealous." Well, I could tell that it was one of those deals where she really wanted to tell me, so I persisted a bit. Smiling, she said, "You wanted to know. Don't be mad." She then proceeded to tell me that a black guy at her gym, who is a personal trainer, kept approaching her, flirting, and asking to train her. She said that it was just a naughty turn-on and did not mean anything negative toward me at all. She said she is a faithful women and would never cheat on me. She said that he just had a perfect body and, if she were single, she would "do" him. I wasn't mad. In fact, I enjoyed the benefits, sexually. Later, when i asked if she would like to try a big black dildo, she put her pillow over her face and sheepishly said, "Ok!" Is this harmless fun or a slippery slope?

2006-12-08 03:49:44 · 13 answers · asked by Steve B 1 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

13 answers

You should be worried !!!

2006-12-08 03:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

Let me share something with you. A woman could have an affair and go to her grave with the secret. Thats the way we are. You do not know anything that we do not want you to know.

So, if your wife told you, its harmless and if it improves your sex life, ENJOY THE HECK OUT OF IT! Flirting is harmless and if she is tellign you about it, it is even extra harmless.

The biggest way to tell if your wife is fooling around is if she is not interested in you anymore sexually and your sex life goes down.

Otherwise, her flirtations are truly harmless and you better enjoy the fact that this trainer probably eliminates the foreplay for you so you can get to the part that men like anyway, the SEX!

Have fun!!!!

2006-12-08 04:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by babygyrl_nyc 5 · 0 1

Slippery Slope.....

2006-12-08 03:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ dreamweaver ♥ 3 · 1 1

Slippery slope, amigo.

Your wife may be faithful, but she's also addicted to male attention.

2006-12-08 03:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by mr_mumbles_nyc 3 · 1 1

Harmless fun! I wouldn't worry about anything because you obviously have open communication and a trusting relationship. Also you are willing to help fulfill her sexual fantasies so you don't have to worry about her going anywhere else to do it! Have fun!!

2006-12-08 03:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

This is harmless fun. Consider yourself a lucky man to be with someone adventurous.

2006-12-08 03:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tony M 7 · 1 1

slippery slope

2006-12-08 03:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by farharringsingslia 4 · 1 1

slippery slope

2006-12-08 03:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

harmless fun and thank her for the trust.

2006-12-08 03:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 1 1

you may think it's play, but, i think you're playing with fire. for heaven's sake- she already said she would do him!!!!!
i was married before and he started play talking about doing my best friend. turned out he already had been for about 3 months before i found out.

2006-12-08 03:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by gypsywitch 3 · 1 2

Don't encouarge it even jokingly or you might be singing the
blues.

2006-12-08 03:56:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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